given a second chance ?
2007-12-20 12:32:47 · 23 answers · asked by ♥BEX♥ 7 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
No such thing as hindsight but would hope that iff I had the knowledge I do now then no I would not make the same mistakes but what is meant to be is meant to be Bex it happens for a reason.
Without my bad marriage would not have had three wonderful girls.
2007-12-20 20:54:39 · answer #1 · answered by momof3 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-02 04:47:33 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends what you mean by second chance?
if you mean if i could change anything ?would you be a different person then ? if so then no we all have to make mistakes in life that is the way we learn, i'm happy with my lot i'm sorry if i hurt anyone on the way, but that's life i really wouldn't want to go through that all over again, even knowing that i could change things,its took too long to get here
2007-12-20 17:55:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Of course I would, otherwise there would be lessons I hadn't learnt, I believe the point of life is to learn lessons that teach values and respect for the next life, if I don't learn them this time around Bex, I'll just keep coming back until I do!
2007-12-21 09:57:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes. Not on purpose though. If I knew the future I would have the advatage of already knowing the lessons I have learned. But I do not regret my mistakes. I feel bad about some of them, but see them as necessary
2007-12-20 12:45:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you ever watched the movie the "Butterfly Effect" you would not want a second chance.
Something else could have happened and things could have been worse knowing what I know now,and going back and trying to change things who knows what could have happened.
2007-12-20 19:59:52 · answer #6 · answered by Dfirefox 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
i have made so many mistakes in my life and always vowed never to do it again, but the mistakes i made were a lesson to me....i made the mistake of marrying a thug, (divorced him 18 years ago) he died last month... and i made the mistake of staying with my previous partner when i didn't really want to be there, so i wasted alot of time, and i was extremely unhappy... i have now sored that out and i am now single and free to do what i like...i cannot stand people who try to control me, it makes me resentful....i will never make them mistakes again...i am older and wiser now, so i know what to look out for...but saying that...i prolly will make more mistakes on my journey in life...lol...
2007-12-20 21:31:46 · answer #7 · answered by Dazzlebox 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I probably would bex, because all the major mistakes I've made in my life have taught me valuable lessons and made me a stronger person.
2007-12-20 23:27:42 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ Beaver Diva Sue ♥ 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I'm who I am because of mistakes I've made so no regrets, no point how else would we learn if not from them, somethings in my life I've thought why me? and sometimes it's taken me years to appreciate and take a positive from it.
2007-12-20 21:45:21 · answer #9 · answered by Wide Awake 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I try not to look at them as mistakes Bex because those 'mistakes' I have learnt from and they have changed me as a person so I see them as positive rather than negative. xx
2007-12-20 20:10:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋