my friends ask me for advice regarding their love life, family life, and social life and expect me to know the answers. somehow, i give them the right answer and all goes as hoped. i'm not sure how i do it, because i've never had a girlfriend, my family is spotlessly perfect, and my social life is okay. is it just that i make lucky guesses, or is it something more? do i have a knack for this kind of thing, or do i have some kind of sixth sense? please answer because the best answer i've gotten at school is that i'm advice-ful. please help.
2007-12-20 12:20:22 · 4 answers · asked by Mythfinder 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I think you may be observant. An observant person can learn by seeing others go through things...they do not have to have experienced them to know about the consequences or the right choices. Also, as an outside observer of other people's lives, you are distant from the emotions that can cloud a person's judgement when involved in the issue.
2007-12-20 12:28:01 · answer #1 · answered by suigeneris-impetus 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe its because.....its easier to make a judgment on a situation being an outsider looking in. Since you've never had a girlfriend, you're always the outsider looking in.
2007-12-20 20:26:02 · answer #2 · answered by Rock 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You seem to be a good kid with a conscience. So when someone ask you for advice and you answer them according to your good conscience then it will work out for them when they apply the advice. Keep it up encourage others to live by a good conscience. Your future may depend on it.
2007-12-20 20:31:41 · answer #3 · answered by Tommiecat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well maybe u have a good listening ability making them feel comfortable to talk too.as for bieng right well u have observed the situation obviously...and no one is perfect
2007-12-20 20:36:12 · answer #4 · answered by Psychologist In The House 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋