My ex husband has been harrasing me via phone for the past month, and I have saved all messages from him. He lives in one state and I in another. Our son get's dissabilty which is in direct deposit in my name. The reason being is that he has had bank accounts closed due to him being overdrawn.I have a savings account for our son which a certain ammount goes to that. I send money every month, in cash. I was foolish not to ask for a signed reciept for what I sent. My ex is now threatning to have me arrested for fraud. I do have bank records of all withdrawls from my bank, and his savings. I know that my ex has a drug problem, but I do not want to goto the step of reporting him, due to the fact that him and my son live with his parents and I dont want their house taken because of him.
I have tried legal aid which can not help me with this matter. Can someone please help me with what to do. I plan on filing for full custody at the first of the year.
2007-12-20 11:55:01 · 4 answers · asked by cantmissamy 2 in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
I really do not know the answer to this Amy but what I do know from going back and forth with my husbands ex is, documentation is the most important piece of evidence you can have in your hands....I had so much evidence in my hands for Patrick to go to court with her that we not only won the right to throw her out of the jointly owned home, we were handed all of the proceeds from the sale of the home too! It is imperative that you either write a check or money order the money to him, and NOT cash as you have no way of proving you sent him the money. A withdrawal is just that, a withdrawal....it does not prove anything. Pat's ex claimed we owed her 6 months child support....well I had every check ever written to her and we were not only, not behind, but ahead by one payment. She accused us of not helping with school clothes which the judge told her this is what child support was for....I had a check written out for ----- for school clothes, and was able to produce it in court. Because of the documentation we did all along she lost bad in court. We go back to court this coming Jan. and she will loose again because of all of the things she is once again accusing Pat of and again we have proof she is a liar. Our Lawyer told us one thing from the start,DOCUMENTATIONDOCUMENTATIONDOCUMENTATION! SHE WILL GET NOTHING AS LONG AS YOU CAN PROVE HER WRONG. And she won't Amy as long as I have a check book and a pen and I do tape all of her conversations vie phone. It is illegal to tape someone in this state and her state unless they are for-warned that they are being taped at the very beginning of the conversation. the conversations were not supposed to be heard by the judge but he heard them anyway because our lawyer told him we had them and he wanted to listen. HUH! He heard an ear full. He then knew she was a liar. And forget about the parents going to jail ....they don't seem to be doing anything to help you get out of him trying to get you for fraud. You need to save Amy and her son.....not his parents. For God's sake Amy keep records. start writing checks or money orders.....it is only in your favor in the long run.
2007-12-20 12:51:58 · answer #1 · answered by LAURA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-06 00:17:11 · answer #2 · answered by Lezlie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Document the abuses of your ex-husband and file an action in court against him so that he will be ordered not to commit the same actions again.
2007-12-20 12:21:05 · answer #3 · answered by FRAGINAL, JTM 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2015-09-13 21:26:13 · answer #4 · answered by Dede 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋