wut do u do when u have a mid life crises (srry cant spell)
and it makes u turn into someone who u hate and someone u dont want to be and u hate urself and ur not who u used to be
u lost the love of ur mother and now ur also looking for love in the wrong places. i dont know wut to do i'm trapped inside myself i hate who i am and i wanna end my life
2007-12-20 11:47:27 · 6 answers · asked by Brat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
“Anyone can give up, it's the easiest thing in the world to do. But to hold it together when everyone else would understand if you fell apart, that's true strength.” ~~unknown
You are stronger than you think. Keep going. Try getting some professional help from a good counselor such as a priest, minister, psychiatrist or psychologist.
Try doing some self-improvement work either by reading the bible or take an adult education course. Learn to paint or dance. Creative skills are a wonderful way to release what you are holding inside. Go to the library and check out the book, "The Artist's Way," by Julia Cameron. It's a great guide for getting you to put your thoughts on paper.
God bless you. You will get through this crisis as many of us have gotten through our own trials.
2007-12-20 12:01:31 · answer #1 · answered by Beach Saint 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wish I knew more about what is causing you to feel this way.
Sometimes people feel this way because they have allowed other people to put them in a negative place when, in fact, they are beautiful people just waiting to bloom.
I would bet that you are a beautiful person with dreams you would like to fulfull but don't because you think you aren't good enough. You are good enough but YOU HAVE TO DECIDE THAT YOU ARE.
Losing the love of your mother is a tough one but, it doesn't mean you should lose love of yourself.
Many people lose the love of their parents but they go out and make their life meaningful....they prove everyone else wrong. They create their life. You can do that! You have the power! You are the master of your own destiny! If you change the way you look at things...the things you look at change!
You have the power to rise above your current situation and become who you really should bel! Do it! Wait for no one! Get up and make your life mean something! Don't waste it! Follow those dreams you have inside you! Go for life!
2007-12-20 12:01:52 · answer #2 · answered by Yner 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie,I have probably gone through more pain then a person who has got shot in my life.But,I never,not once wanted to take my life.Do you know why?its because life is the most precious and endearing thing,and god put us on earth for a reason.Try to find that reason honey,live the life of christianity.
God bless your life and you,for they are both precious.
2007-12-20 12:13:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me, it began a year after I came home from Desert Storm. My Boyfriend left me, and I suddenly realized that no one in the command I was working so desparately to serve cared one bit about me or my troubles. It took me almost three years of soul searching to figure it out.
I pray you don't have to endure anything like that to find peace within.
2007-12-20 17:30:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't end your life!!! I've been in this situation many times.Your probably just going through depression. Just keep your head held high and think positive.Things will get better.If you end your life you will never get to experience all the joyous and wonderful things life can bring.=]
2007-12-20 11:53:32 · answer #5 · answered by broken</3 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
pray. and get some help sweetie. It will be ok.
2007-12-20 11:53:22 · answer #6 · answered by breezy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋