I know that some busy bodies want to report this question. I know that you have no life. But, for those that this has happened to, it means something. So, you no good pieces of whatever, go whatever yourself.
2007-12-20 11:25:43 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
twice....both sides once when I was 8 once when I was 12......by my father ....a JW elder.....he has been accused by others
http://silentlambs.org
which one of us will be violated first you, for asking....or me for answering truthfully?
2007-12-21 01:56:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
This is a very good question. I am glad to see people talking about it and letting out their pain and anger.
I never experienced rape, but endured physical abuse for more years than I can remember. It colored my life for a long time until I was helped by a doc.
I want to give you a star too, but will not so as not to draw unwanted attention to it. I hope this question remains and you do not get a stupid notice form YA.
I wish you the best. Take care.
2007-12-20 20:15:00 · answer #2 · answered by Marguerite 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I guess I took back my star too- hopefully it won't get reported this time I mean what the hell if the losers dont want to answer move the hell on...leave us alone
I will give the same answer I gave before
Some things just hurt to bad to think about, so they really cannot be talked about. No matter how many times a person is violated the pain goes on forever
I ordinarily would not answer this but you are a dear friend and I trust that you are not asking to cause any harm
((8track))
*edit* to the one who wants to act like it never happened - I wish you good luck with that- honestly I do..I did that for many many years and trust me it comes out and it will rip you up emotionally..but as far as tellin ya how to deal with it - well I don't know I really don't know.
2007-12-20 11:44:52 · answer #3 · answered by FallenAngel© 7 · 13⤊ 0⤋
Once as a child. It's not offensive, it's honest. I'm not offended. If I'm not offended then I don't know why anybody else should be. (((8TM))) I left my star because I want people to read this question. I understand what queen is saying but I think it's important not to sugarcoat things.
I founded an organization that deals with rape/incest/domestic abuse and receive no profit from it. Nothing. The thing they get is my undivided love and understanding of what it is to be so violated. We must change how we deal with rape on all levels. We must stop treating the survivors as if they are the one's who must defend themselves against an imbalanced judicial system and a society where people still think that rape survivors lie.
Most rapists are never convicted of rape, 80% plea to lesser sentences because the D.A. knows that they putting the survivor on the stand is akin to torture and it is one person's word against another's silence particularly when there's no DNA involved and most of us wait to report our crimes or never do. As an adult, twice. One was a stalker, one an acquaintance and then I woke up and realized I was a person worth fighting for. NEVER AGAIN! Love to all of you who have suffered such pain. Healing and blessings.
2007-12-20 11:35:33 · answer #4 · answered by Yogini 6 · 14⤊ 0⤋
I was sexually abused by an uncle from ages 8-10 then when I was 14 my boyfriends older brother raped me. I think it is a good question it gives people a chance to talk about there personal demons I have only told one person about this and he was the man i thought i was going to marry until i found out that he couldnt deal with being with a women that has had this type of past. thanks for giving me the chance to get this off of my chest its a huge burden to carry around with you then a harder thing to get past when you finally confide in someone your story and they use it against you. again thank you.
2007-12-21 03:25:49 · answer #5 · answered by feb29 4 · 6⤊ 0⤋
I echo support on this as well. Too many people are hiding thier heads when it comes to this subject. No wonder it is under reported and it happens so much. The only way to stop it is to bring it out into the light. Only then will the pain end.
2007-12-20 11:41:43 · answer #6 · answered by Praire Crone 7 · 10⤊ 0⤋
A couple times, as a child. I don't hold it against the person, because it never really hurt me that much. I just don't think about it. I act like it never happened, and I guess it's better this way. I don't want tension to bulid up. But it's good that I can talk to my other cousins about it sometimes, we all got molested by the same cousin.
2007-12-20 11:40:45 · answer #7 · answered by This Is Radio Clash 6 · 11⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-19 21:36:49 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Again - Does 15 years old count as being a child? Yes, I was still a child. But more understanding (not the right word for it) than a younger child, for sure. Just as devastating? I have not figured that one out yet.
Yeah, it means something, Sweetheart. Thank you for this.
I am so sorry.
(((((((((4 ALL)))))))))
2007-12-20 13:00:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 9⤊ 0⤋
Luckily zero times. The fact that so many people on here were raped is disturbing.
2007-12-20 13:25:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
Only once but it has replayed in my mind litrally hundreds of times.
Cousin, black pepper in the eyes....
Edit I actually took back the star. I think sometimes stars lead to bad publicity on a question,
2007-12-20 11:31:24 · answer #11 · answered by queen of snarky-yack again 4 · 9⤊ 0⤋