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done things what i mean is had sex and i havent im 15 for god sake i dont even think of that. just because im crazy and kinda wild and play around with my friends it isnt true what she tells me she thinks that im like a s.l.u.t and IM NOT the fardest i have done with a guy is kiss him THATS IT.i cant have guy friends she tells me oh no u might have sex with him and end up pregnet! i have know this guy since 1st grade the is like my best friend i would never do anything with him he is like my brother. i have tried to explain to her be she doesnt understand.it makes me feel bad when she tells me stuff i dont know what to do with her anymore what can i do for her to trust me?

2007-12-20 10:22:24 · 3 answers · asked by niikkii_13 3 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

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It is very hard for mothers when their little girl is growing up. They know what went on when she was younger, and the boys havn't changed any. I think it time that you go to your mother and tell her you would like to talk to her, and then tell her that you are not doing anything, but when you feel like it is on your mind to have sex, that you will come to her and discuss it with her, because you don't want to have kids before it is time, and that you need her to trust you enough, and that you want to be able to come to her and talk about all this, because you love and respect her and value her opinion. My kids could come and talk to me about everything and anything, to this day they still do, and they have grandkids of their own. Try it, act like an adult, and you get treated like one.

2007-12-20 10:35:58 · answer #1 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 1 0

U just have to do what u say.. and say what u mean...

I understand it is hard to be a teen..
but worse..
it is hard to be a parent.. especially for females.. so please understand..
I felt the same way as u..
but I am older now..
let's say U would have sex.. and did get pg
who is gonna end up taking care of the baby and u..
most likely Ur mom.. so she is freaking out inside..
U have to tell her that if she lets him come over .. yal will watch TV or have dinner or whatever..
Ur room is off limits..
she will see she can trust u..
and maybe later u can go out for a movie or something..
good luck... happy holidays

2007-12-20 18:06:42 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ Blondie ♥ 7 · 0 0

first of all tell your mother to make you a apointment with the Doctor to have you checked out to see for her self that you are still a virgin.Then tell her she raised you well now let you show her how well.

2007-12-20 14:38:42 · answer #3 · answered by the answerman 3 · 0 0

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