did i do somthing wrong?

Question

i feel like i have lost alot of my best friends and idk y i mean ya we are growing up but we have been friends for 4 or longer years and i love them like brothers and sisters i just dont wanna lose them they are the best thing in my life besides my family and now i only have one bestfriend and i can tell her EVERYTHING we can talk forever about one thing but i really miss my old friends and

Answer 1

Talk to them about it. They are the ones to ask. If you don't ask them what is going on, you may not find out. What is it going to hurt to ask??
Good Luck!

Answer 2

No you didn't do anything wrong, that's just how life goes.
Most people don't ever see their friends again after high-school, and it's especially hard when you change grades and might not have the same schedules.
I know it's hard, but it's true.

What you can do is plan things on your weekends, try to keep your friends close together, and remember the good times that you always have.

If you don't want your friends to leave you, then don't let them go!

Answer 3

most likely your all just growing up and getting different interests this doesn't mean you did anything it just means things are going to change your going to see a lot of this in life you'll make new great friends and will keep some of your old friends that mean the very most you can make an effort to try and stay friends with those around you now and maybe you will stay friends.

Answer 4

Well if you feel like your losing them, then you should talk to them. I bet they feel the same way. You just need to talk. Tell them how much they mean to you and that if you lose them, then you arent you anymore. Tell them that your friends mean more than the polluted air you breathe. And just because your getting older, you don't want to lose them. Tell them that you can always make new friends, but no one can be there to talk about what you had with your old friends. Tell them that every seconnd beat of your heart is theirs. I bet that It'll work out!

Answer 5

It happens at my school all the time. I've felt like that before. I don't think you did anything and maybe they just hang out with your other friends more now. Like this year i hanging out with people that i wasn't really close to last year. Because of my schedule i don't have any class with them and i have classes with other people. But i still hang with them because every girl in the ninth grade are friends and it causes problems sometimes but we deal with it. But you didn't do anything wrong!

Happy Holidays!!

Answer 6

That's happened to me too, losing friends. I think it's just as you get older you change and you can sometimes drift apart.
For me, I stopped depending on them as much. They're still my friends, i just don't tell them everything now. And I think it's helped because now I see who my real friends are.
Or you could pick the one you trust the most and talk to them about it?

Answer 7

Don't worry you win and you lose in life. Just make new friends or try get them all back together at some point.

Answer 8

While I think you are relating the common experience of moving on from childhood friends and becoming more discriminating in who you choose to move with into adult hood, I may have completely bogged down with the nature of your question.

Answer 9

and maybe you should just live with it and find some new friends...if your in high school or jr high its probly not the best time to be looking for friends becuz you'll only feel bad in the end..theres nothing you can really do to get them back...

Answer 10

u cant blame urself for time.with but we're growing up, not apart. she has a job, goes to school, bf, and so many more things to do, and so do i. its life. just try not to loose communication w/ them. call them more, or email them or something. dont blame urself over something that is perfectly natural.