i mean come on we have all dont it or thought about doin it !!
but when i do it's really tight and painfull and im sore after why is this sorry but i need this info !!!
2007-12-20 09:42:08 · 42 answers · asked by LaLa :) 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
lol sorry im new to this i kno its a weired ?'n but ima virgin and id rather do that then go out and have sex with juss anyone cuz im single yet it hurts and juss use 1 dijet lolz im soo sorry but i wanted to kno
2007-12-20 09:52:04 · update #1
and i dont do it alot like at all and i am very slow and gentle but it hurts like hell !!!
2007-12-20 09:52:49 · update #2
If you still have a hymen and you insert something into your vagina, that could be uncomfortable. Make sure you're very slick, add lubrication if you need it.
There's a very small chance you might have a medical problem. Bring it up with your doctor on your next visit.
2007-12-20 13:07:09 · answer #1 · answered by Tom V 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Seeing as you used the word "tight",i'm assuming you mean inside of you.
This is probably because you're not getting enough lubrication.
Women make this naturally when they're turned on,but some women just don't make alot (and some women make a ton!),which is why they have things like KY Jelly and Vaseline.
Try a lubricant next time. It will help whatever you're trying to insert into yourself,go in easier and make it less painful and sore.
Don't try and force things in when you're not well lubricated or very wet. Thats what causes the sore-ness.
2007-12-20 09:50:34 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs_Golub 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How are you masturbating? If you are using external clittoral stimulation you may be getting raw. Use lubricant. If you are massaging the Graffenberg area (G-Spot located a few inches inside and towards the front) you may want to use a device with less bumps.
2007-12-20 09:46:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well you should lube it first, and if that dont work try a man . And if that dont work lube it up and let a man give it a try again, and if that dont work try a doctor. I mean tell a doctor. Dont be so hard on yourself, its just a feeling.
2007-12-20 09:47:24 · answer #4 · answered by tanker38108 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Have you had sex? Add some details...
It hurts because you are a virgin. You're not stretched out yet. Try using some lube and stick with just fingers for now. Toys might cause more pain... Good luck!
2007-12-20 09:44:49 · answer #5 · answered by lvjaycie 3 · 5⤊ 2⤋
Masturbation isn't inherently wrong. I suppose it depends on how you masturbate. Depending on what you are doing perhaps you need a lubricant? However, if the pain persists you should see a doctor. Sex or masturbation shouldn't be painful. (Well unless you want it to be.)
2007-12-20 09:46:36 · answer #6 · answered by dem0n1c_nerd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are inserting something that is too big then you'll be in pain. You should feel better after a few tries though. It's probably best to speak to your gynecologist.
2007-12-20 09:45:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
if u have discoloration or bumps on the shaft of your penis you need to get it check out by a doctor. its no longer basic to declare what it is except u describe the bumps. its uncomplicated to have small bumps on the top of the penis the place the shaft meets the top so if that's what you're speaking approximately do no longer worry approximately it
2016-11-23 18:14:22 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is it like a pain in your lower tummy if so it can be a bladder infection because usually when i masterbate i feel it but when i have sex i dont...but i think i know what you rtalking about
2007-12-20 09:46:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try using more lube and be a little more gentle with yourself.
2007-12-20 09:44:49 · answer #10 · answered by TIMM M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋