I finaly got a victory and I learned something .When dealing with men , sometimes sinking to their level is the eye opener they really need .
example:
My hunnies thinks he's my God and Master bcuz I let him feel that big, but when he decides he's gonna take away the money and laptop he gave me, I decided to show him whats REALLY going on here. I gave him back his ring and turned around and told him that EVERYTHING I gave and bought him will be at Goodwill when he gets home form work . Turns out , I actually gave him more than he had given me . All his clothes, shoes, socks and underwear , and much more ! I took it all back .
I told him go ahead and take your money back from me, your gonna need it to by more clothes !
I never seen him change his attitude so fast !
All because I gave him just a taste of is own medicine !
please share with me your personal victory story : )
2007-12-20 09:12:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
IT might occur to you, John, that nobody is perfect and we have our little spats , but we are overall very happy .
Word of advice:
Only the lonely seek the ideal.
2007-12-20 09:34:21 · update #1
this is evil this is so evil,
this happen many years ago when I was still young and insecure,
My ex kept cheating on me with the same girl I was devasted I really thought I loved him and it hurt bad. Toward the end I tried to pretend I was stupid and did not know what he was doing.
Anyway I knew he had barrowed her his car the night before because I found out through friends so the next morning when he was making breakfast all happy and in a good mood.
I went in my room squirt some yellow hand lotion in a condom went out to his car and through the dirty condom in the back seat of his car (at the time his care was special to him)
So we get out to the the to take the kid to school and when he leaned in the back seat he seen the condom!
HA HA HA HA
HE FREAKED OUT!
Started yelling that FFFFNNN BBBB!
So I played stupid and said " What are you talking about who what and of course he could not tell me he thought that his mistress had sex in his car?
HA HA
I then broke up with him and he broke up with her and in the end he got his!
HA HA HA
8 years later we are friends he knows the story now I finally fessed up because I felt bad and he just said
MAN YOUR GOOD!
HA HA AH HA
2007-12-20 09:31:44 · answer #1 · answered by lisalisa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It might occur to you that not all relationships have to have triumph of one person over another. With every victory, there is a loser. If he has to win all the time (even if you let him), that will be a challenge for a long term relationship.
2007-12-20 09:27:29 · answer #2 · answered by John R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I once was married to a very abusive man who never hit me, but talked to me like I was less of a person. One night I had his supper waiting on him for when he came in from work. He didn't want what I had fixed for him and tossed it out in the backyard. He told me to get my smart-a** back in the kitchen and fix him a suitable supper, so I did!!
I opened a couple cans of dogfood, chopped up some onions and green peppers, added salt and pepper and served this on rice!!!! My hubbie ate soooo much I thought he was gonna be sick!!!!!!
We are no longer married AND he NEVER found out that he ate dogfood for supper!!!!!!!!!!
2007-12-20 11:06:50 · answer #3 · answered by Gypsy Rose 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding? i'm point 6 and function an 11% BA checklist. I have not any ought to develop. sooner or later my grandchildren will question me regarding the day I hit point 7, and that i will positioned them on my knee and say "In my day we did no longer have etherlinked ideas implants. We had something referred to as keyboards on which we pressed buttons that spelled words that had meaning." At which factor they could say "Grandpa, you scent like pee" and run away.
2016-11-04 04:01:00 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got a divorce after 31 years now that took balls.
2007-12-20 09:17:52 · answer #5 · answered by kim t 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
i had 3 years of abuse from my ex husband and just before i left him i let the dog like his steak before i cooked it for him,(in a seperate frying pan to mine) and i watched him eat it all! then i ran his toothbrush around the toilet bowl and put it back for him to use! it felt great.
2007-12-20 09:21:15 · answer #6 · answered by lilly 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You go girl! Seems like more women here needs to be more like you.
2007-12-20 09:18:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
God your such a demon.
2007-12-20 09:18:48 · answer #8 · answered by Tough Guy 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋