my man always goes out to the pub. Drinks for hours and then comes home and goes to sleep after saying 2 words to me and then i spend the rest of the evening on my own. What to do?
2007-12-20 09:04:25 · 11 answers · asked by holiday girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Alcohol is a central nervous system depressant.
What effect would you like it to have - drink 11 pints and then want to paint the garage?
2007-12-20 09:16:47 · answer #1 · answered by filthy_crumb 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is this something that just begun? You should have noticed the signs and symptoms early. Now, what to do? It sounds like there is no communication because he is passed out and you are sitting up alone. Make something happen in your favor. Remember, it may get worse before it gets better. Good luck.
2007-12-20 12:19:23 · answer #2 · answered by Special K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok I'm not a feminist. But I am female. So..to have sex with someone male or female without their consent, is rape. If the person is too drunk/high/asleep or for whatever reason not capable of giving their consent with a clear and concise mind, and you take advantage of this, then to me it is rape. Also a man can have an erect penis for many reasons and it does not mean he is consenting to sex.
2016-04-10 10:09:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have u ever gotten drunk and then went and sat down after? i know when i drink i just wana go to sleep too. why dont you go out drinking with him sometime? if hes just going with the guys then get him to go somewhere else and get drunk. then when u 2 get back and ur both drunk maybe something interesting will happen lol
2007-12-20 09:17:05 · answer #4 · answered by Tyler B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grab a pint with him, if you can, perhaps.
If he's only interested in "coming home" to you, then I think you could tell him he's being unfair, and not paying attention to your relationship - and lack of attention doesn't make any relationship.
Good luck.
2007-12-20 09:12:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like fun! Why don't you join him once in a while? Or do something that you enjoy-why wait for him to come home and entertain you-your young live it up!
2007-12-20 09:10:15 · answer #6 · answered by Lunaeclipz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if he doesn't want to be with you and is avoiding you. If you don't voice your concern he'll just keep on doing it. Try to introduce something you can both do together. If he's unwilling to try then I reccomend a change of men!
2007-12-20 09:16:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trade him in as he has blanked you out>Unless you want your life this way>Say 2 words to him GOOD BYE>
2007-12-20 09:09:01 · answer #8 · answered by 45 auto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he does this on a regular basis you need to give him his walking papers. He's finding his beer more interesting than you.
2007-12-20 09:10:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You married the guy....
2007-12-20 09:07:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋