i think this guy who used to like me might be using me but im not sure, we havent done anything yet. What are somethings guys do when they're trying to use a girl?
2007-12-20 08:27:18 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Well when a guy uses a girl, he comes to her when he needs stuff, like money, you have someone there to hang out with him or even, sex. He can tell if he is using you when he needs you with things but with his friend, he ignores you and pretend that you are not even there. But behind his friends, he treats you nicely but thats only when you guys are alone. Hope that helped
2007-12-20 08:31:43 · answer #1 · answered by Chanelle L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you giving him that he may want? Popularity? Help with his homework? etc. By saying you haven't done anything yet I assume you mean sexual. Thank heavens! That is what they usually use you for. Does he think you may? Maybe he waiting for this to happen which is still using you for future events. I would take away whatever he may be using you for for a few days and see what happens. If he is using you he'll be gone soon if not your relationship will probably survive.
2007-12-20 16:32:23 · answer #2 · answered by periwinkleme 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Using you for what?
2007-12-20 16:29:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly sweetie, it's when you have doubt. Better get it out in the open too...
I thought I liked this guy, he was a bit older then me, and in my high school that was "cool". So we dated, 3 months later, I asked him if he really did like me, because I was having doubts. He stumbled, and got quiet, and I said "truthfully". Now, this next part might be odd for guys idk, but he said "well, honestly, I want to break up, I never have liked you, I just heard about you, thought you were kinda cute, so I wanted to have sex. So, now I know we ain't going to, so let's just end it here, now".
So, if you have doubts, just ask him how he feels about you. If you suspect he's lying, quit hanging out with him.
BTW, you don't want to do ANYTHING with a guy who you have doubts about...
2007-12-20 16:37:24 · answer #4 · answered by Chas A 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your time is better spent here being clear about your personal boundaries, universally speaking. Once your ok with who you are then enjoy the moment! Have a good time the world is your oyster and if this man ames to please, you feel fine, if not then smile its his loss.
2007-12-20 16:32:12 · answer #5 · answered by kim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when he nly talks to butter you up and get ready to ask for something. when the love making isn't as emtonal, m trying t tone it down because kids get n here but I know because I use people all the time.
2007-12-20 16:31:13 · answer #6 · answered by sexyLexy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you haven't done anything yet I don't know what he would be using you for.
2007-12-20 16:30:13 · answer #7 · answered by Happy As A Clam 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If your intuition is telling you he's using you, then more than likely he is. It's taken me a LONG time to learn this lesson and learn to follow my gut. Listen to your suspicion--it's coming from somewhere. Trust yourself.
2007-12-20 16:31:25 · answer #8 · answered by froggy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Good, then don't do anything with him until you are married. A real guy will wait until he's married to do things like that.
2007-12-20 16:30:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is a universal fact that only users can be used. Think about it.
2007-12-20 16:30:39 · answer #10 · answered by Why ask me? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋