Do you believe that people come to you in your dreams?

Question

my ex died in july and i often go to the cemetery and talk to him. i asked him to give me a sign that he was still with me..(spiritualy) and watching over me.
about 4 days later i had a dream about him and everyting was SO real. but it ended kinda bad. see he "came back" in my dream then at the end he died again. WTF??? what is he trying to tell me? or whas it jsut a coincidence?

Answer 1

i do believe that. im not sure what he was trying to tell u but in my opinion it makes sense that he died again in your dream he was coming to visit u but at the end of the visit he had to go back to heaven, u know what i mean

Answer 2

Yes, I think they do. I know many will say they do not and your dreams is jut your mind working on the grieving process which that is part of it but I do think the dead come to us in dreams. I also think living people can enter your dreams also for good or bad. It is a matter of faith though. I am Wiccan so my beliefs are on the mystic side of life.
BB

Answer 3

This greatly depends on the answer to a different question which is do you believe in an afterlife? I believe this as a matter of faith (not evidence) although there are some scientific attempts to look for evidence of an afterlife.
However, some attempts by science in the study of ESP has shown positive results of sending images to people in their dream states (link below).
Also, the Ganzfeld experiments that reduce a person's physical input from the senses suggest that an altered state of consciousness (dream like?) does make one more responsive to ESP impressions.
Unfortunately in non testing situations one just has to choose as a matter of belief if a dream was wish fulfillment, reorganized thoughts, or actual spirit contact.
I suggest choosing whatever you find that makes your life more meaningful as that nobody (debunker or believer) can tell you what you experienced or what to believe.

Answer 4

Hello Loves

Sorry about your loss.

Spirit will come to us via the route of least resistance - dreams in particular.

So there is every likely hood that this was you partner. The worrying part of the dream was probably your own mind reacting to the loss.

Pam

Answer 5

I believe it is the easiest way for their spirits to communicate with family members is through your dreams my stepmom came back to me after years of abusing me when i was younger *she had her hair and was beautiful (lost hair to chemo therapy)* she apologized and told me to watch my brothers and take care of my dad... It filled me up with utter most joy ... Thus again one of the many reasons i got into the paranormal.... I talk to my grandpa all the time in my dreams i know its them because i just have a the feeling i am talking to them as they were alive, because i can remember the past and you never forget those cherieshed memories you had with them :) Some are good and some are bad but the thing i learned is they love you no matter if they are dead or alive
"A mind goes along way but the heart never leaves"

Think of it this way : I knew someone who had a Great Grandmother who died of cancer but lost all of her memory before it got severe , the day she died she called told their mom "forgot her name before" and said at the last second "
"*not listing their real name* Sally, Take care of your son's i love you .... It is interesting how the human brain works :)

It becomes yet another "Paranormal Mystery" in the making ;)

Ryan ~Paranormal Investigator/Researcher~
www.theprosonline.com

Answer 6

IDK...but I think someone who is alive has been coming to me in my dreams...because...I wouldn't think up the things that happen. Somehow you KNOW what's in YOUR heart and in YOUR mind. These things that I dream are NOT in my heart or in my mind.
As for your ex.... MAYBE he's saying that it's the "death" of your relationship with him.....just like your divorce was supposed to be the death of your relationship. (unless you just mean he was your xbf..not your x husband.)I'm not saying that that's what he's saying. I'm just guessing.
EDIT..Guess this will sound silly. My dog died over 5 months ago. I have a picture of her where I can see it all the time. It helps a lot. I wish I could see her in my dreams...or know that she's walking beside me. If "wishing" could make you have these dreams or people have "visits" from spirits...then I would be on here telling how she visited me. This is to say that "wishing" it doesn't make it happen...no matter what the skeptics say!!.

Answer 7

Your psyche wanted it to be so therefore it triggered a "wish fulfillment" in your conscience. That's normal. Sometimes we want something so badly that our psyche will respond in this manner. However, if your dream becomes a recurring one and always ends in "death" for your husband then I think you need psychological help otherwise you may talk yourself into a life of fear and abnormal behavior based on a perceived conception which may not really be there. Go to the link below and read what "death" means in a dream. Just be careful and be objective about anything in the occult. It is a dangerous topic in the untrained mind like yours and mine.

Answer 8

I do not believe people or dead people can come to your dream and talk to you.

The vision or image you see basically is from your subconscious mind. You projected how he wanted to come back and that is how. In other words, since he was part of your life, more or less that will lurk into your subconscious mind. Dreaming of him is no surprise whether it was a long time. After all, that person was part of your life. The question really is how you trigger him to be in your dream.

In your case, projecting him talking to you may seem like some unresolved issue you have in mind, he being dead again may show some thing you want to give up or you may subconsciously realize that he is longer that. In other words, you admitted that was truth in your dream as well.

Answer 9

I totally believe in this. I had a childhood friend that I grow up with die and I was so sad over it but could not fly down to say my last goodbye at his funeral. I really did hit me kind of hard. A few weeks later he came to me in my dream and the first thing I asked him was "are you died?" which he replied Yes. Then I started to explain to be that I was so sorry that I could see him and that I felt so bad and sad that he was gone. He just replied "Yes I know how you feel you don't have to explain anything to me." When he finally said he had to go I asked him if I could go with him and he just said "where I'm going you can't go?"
He's been back in my dreams another time. Its funny because when he cames into my dreams he comes with an ex boyfriend of mine (which is his cousin and not dead.) but he never talks to me in my dream.

As for what your dream about him dying I'm not sure. I'm sorry that I can't help you. But at least you can still see him and talk to him from time to time.

Answer 10

I hope people can come to you in dreams. My friend died last April and one night I had a dream that she walked up to me as I was sitting reading a book and i told her "you're supposed to tell me something." she leaned over and whispered in my ear, but I have no idea what she said. I couldn't hear it. It was such an awesome dream and a little freaky. i like to think she had something to do with it. i have a lot of dreams about her still and i try to write them down. Once in a dream she gave me a yellow canary in a cage to make me feel better. I hope that your ex is really trying to "contact" you. (I don't know how else to put it.) it would be so amazing if my friend was trying to too.

Answer 11

It is possible for spirits to come to you in your dreams, I get it all the time, it's one way my spirit guides and I communicate. But I'm afraid I don't think he's trying to tell you something, but more that this is partly a "wish fulfillment" dream. (((HUGS)))) on your loss.

BUT... he's always with you. Do you ever get a wiff of a scent that just reminds you of him? Or you're somewhere, doing something and he's the furthest thing from your mind, when suddenly he pops into your thoughts?? Ever find yourself out of the clear blue sky having a conversation with him and imaginging what he's saying in response? Or when you go to the cemetary and talk to him, do you ever imagine his responses?? It's that easy, just most people don't realize it. That's him. Loved ones who die will always be with us, and they CAN hear you.

Peace, love and light