My bestfriend said that I should of had one, but i think it was just the guy that he was not a)"big enough" or b)he wasn't good enough. what do you think?
2007-12-20 07:38:08 · 8 answers · asked by a_rose_r28 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
but even when i masterbate i still dont know when or even if im goign to get one!!
2007-12-20 07:56:19 · update #1
You'll know when you feel it. It will be so amazing and start from your vagina working it's way through out your body.
It's possible you have experienced one. If not then try getting one with masturbating and thinking naughty sexy thoughts.
If your aching between your legs then satisfy your sexual hunger.
You can give yourself an amazing orgasm having some naughty good fun time alone . . . in your room with a soft and silky pillow or cuddly teddybear, or the shower with soapy fingers, or the living room, or the backyard where the neighbors can't see you.
If you're wondering, the female clit is full of thousands of nerve endings. Pleasuring that, rubbing that area will get you there. If you're with a guy, necxt time your on top or doggy style have him rub your clit area. It works great for my Gf.
2007-12-20 09:28:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
having an orgasm has a lot more to do with your sex life than you think. being too little or the action of the guy has some to do with it i suppose, but not all of it. you need to be properly aroused...tell him to take his time on your hot spots. if he is smaller then find a position that maximizes your stimulation of your g spot...missionary isn't the only position out there. physical touch isn't the only part of sex. it is an emotional connection too. if you are too worried or stressed that "why am i not having an orgasm yet" mid sex can kinda put a damper on things. if you are just starting to sleep with him try to relax and just let things go naturally. if he isn't pleasing you then a little gentle redirection can help.
2007-12-20 16:05:54 · answer #2 · answered by daisy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is definitely you, the man is not responsible for "giving" you an orgasm....orgasm occurs in the brain sweetie, and it's the brain you need to concern yourself with. You need to be more in tune with it and with your body. Your state of mind and level of desire are what create the orgasm. This is why many women do indeed go their entire lives without experiencing an orgasm, they are so closed off from their own emotions and their own thought processes, and they actually think the man is responsible for giving them an orgasm, which of course he can't, that they never experience one. You need to learn your own body, learn your own sexual triggers and create your own environment for an orgasm, no man can do it for you, he can only share the environment with you.
2007-12-20 15:50:08 · answer #3 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your mind could be the problem. Remove your hang ups about sex, your body, your partner, the relationship, or life and focus on the feeling. Close your eyes and let the feeling of sex guide you.
If sex is uncomfortable then you may not be lubricated enough or aroused down there. Gentle foreplay and oral sex may help.
2007-12-20 16:29:37 · answer #4 · answered by jerseygyrl1127 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its possible, some women go their whole life without knowing what a true orgasm feels like. i would just say he didn't hit you in the right spots. sounds like he needs a little orgasm 101! lol.
2007-12-20 15:44:58 · answer #5 · answered by *<3_Gizmo* 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try it yourself. . .my first orgasm was by myself and that way you know what you need to do in order to reach orgasm and can almost help the guy out by doing what works for you.
2007-12-20 15:47:23 · answer #6 · answered by Alexa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Work on your clitoris and him too, that is the best spot......look it up if you don't know what it is.
When you really have one you will know.===
2007-12-20 16:13:36 · answer #7 · answered by lana s 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you had me i would make you orgasm
2007-12-20 16:37:29 · answer #8 · answered by Ciao Bella is Love Drunk 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋