me and my ex broke up 3 months ago and shes got a new boyfriend but she still talks to me and texts me everyday. why is she doing this?? like we both want to get back together but when she got a new boyfriend i lost it and i decided i never wanted to get back with her but it really sucks because i did really love her im a nice guy. And like she still calls me babe even though we arent going out but i am trying not to think of her because it just gets me mad that shes with her new boyfriend. :(:(
2007-12-20 06:52:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Most likely she's keeping you on the side in case anything happens with the new boyfriend. Get over her and find yourself a new girl. You deserve better.
2007-12-20 06:57:50 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs S 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Forget her! She's obviously trying to keep in touch not to be friends but to make sure that she will have somebody to lean on when she dumps her boyfriend or to have you there on the side. She obviously doesn't love you otherwise she would leave the other guy and be altogether with you. Get a girl and show her. Just say "look i dont know if you understand what messages that you are giving me, but im not comfortable still being romanticly involved with you so i think its best if we forget about what we had" or sonething like that. Good luck ! XXX
2007-12-20 07:16:33 · answer #2 · answered by pop94 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a comfort zone for her, or someone to fill her empty space. Is she being unfair, certainly, but it happens. She probly does care for you very much, but she and you know she is not the one for you. You would defintely make great friends for the rest of your life. But stop putting romance into your friendship. You have a friend. She emails and calls you baby because she does care and see you as her friend, she knows you are having a tough time letting go, but she means well. Ask her to watch what she says and what she does until you are fully healed from her. Situations like these if handled well will lead to great friendships. Flow with it and stop looking for signs to get back together.
2007-12-20 07:55:58 · answer #3 · answered by Tamm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask her what is going on. she probley still loves you and is using the other guy over to get over you. trust me ask us girl are complicated at times but if u just ask us a question & then give us time to think about wat you've said we'll usual tell you how it is. and if you are a nice guy then give us a call lol coz i dnt know any nice guy at all lol!
if she don't want you anymore then its her lost . i hope this helps x x x
2007-12-20 07:04:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like she is stringing you along and I wonder if her new boyfriend knows or cares that she is doing this. If her behavior is ok with you, then continue doing this, but I would move on. It sounds like you need to let this go.
2007-12-20 07:00:56 · answer #5 · answered by gogogadgetlonglegs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you need to do is get yourself a new girfriend and see what happens X means wrong so do the right thing and move on
2007-12-20 07:01:17 · answer #6 · answered by love you guys 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, im 100% sure that she's playing with you... i mean, she is playing YOU!
don't get too serious about her... i know this kind of stuff... of course, im a woman...
if she still loves you, she will not give her heart to someone else... that's true love...
if she still loves you, she will not give or WASTE her time to some else...
thats all.. God bLEss.... hmmm....
2007-12-20 06:59:27 · answer #7 · answered by Joysalms R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but you won't get back together.. you have moved to safe friend status. Someone she knows well enough to share problems with, but no longer wishes to be intimate with....
2007-12-20 07:00:36 · answer #8 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋