why is it so hard to find love to young black teens
2007-12-20 05:46:00 · 9 answers · asked by frederick j 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
*hug* I'm sorry that life is hard right now. I promise that it will get better. Do well in school (yes I know, that will worsen the problems for now - but do it anyway) and go to a good college. You will quickly find that you become very popular and much in demand. You will do fine, I swear.
Believe in yourself! You are wonderful! and I truly, truly, mean that. I'm neither black nor a teen - to be honest -- but I know that you can be anything you decide to be, and that you will have a wonderful boyfriend one day who will wipe all your tears away and love you more than anything on earth. Just believe -- and go forward.
When I was around your age, I had a gay African American friend on whom I had SUCH a crush. He did what I am recommending to you (we never did more than hold hands, we were both too scared to do more -- oh, and we kind of kissed once {I blush to remember how bad our attempt to kiss went - we missed each other's mouths because we were shaking so bad :-( Now stop laughing!}) I would not trade my memories of him for the world. He went to a good college, and he and his lover live in Florida now. They are very very happy.
Kindest possible thoughts, and lots of love, if you need/want to talk to a virtually middle aged white guy -- write, I listen well.
Reyn
believeinyou24@yahoo.com
PS Notice how Steamie, or whatever his name is above my post doesn't have any email or other contact in his profile. Why is it that those who try to manipulate and abuse gay children with their own twisted logic and lies are always such cowards that there is no way to contact them to respond to their falsehoods? Oh well.
2007-12-20 06:05:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Because what you're looking for is NOT real love. Something went wack - environment, influence, strange or unnatural relationships with caregiver, whatever the case may be. And these feelings are confused as to what love really is. Love is not self indulgent pleasure seeking, it's caring and putting others needs above ones own - it the way that was intended a woman with a man in the bond of marriage.
2007-12-20 05:55:28 · answer #2 · answered by Enlightening McQueen 3 · 1⤊ 4⤋
Because finding love is difficult - period. Young, old, straight, gay, black, white...
2007-12-20 05:49:41 · answer #3 · answered by misskate12001 6 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Because young people arn't sure if they really are gay or not. That's the problem here at least. One of my good friends is a lesbian.
2007-12-20 05:48:33 · answer #4 · answered by anjamuhlese 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
It is difficult to find love when your hormones are more interested in the physical rather than emotional aspects.
2007-12-20 05:53:31 · answer #5 · answered by nycguy10002 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
cause gay people will be bullied at school, so its best to stay in the closet.
2007-12-20 05:53:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You've asked two questions, unrelated. Black is a normal race, but gay is an abnormal behavior, practiced by whites, blacks and people of all colors.
2007-12-20 05:49:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 5⤋
because it is a minority. Young gay people aren't typically in groups.
2007-12-20 05:48:17 · answer #8 · answered by NNY 6 · 1⤊ 3⤋
As it should be
2007-12-20 06:09:47 · answer #9 · answered by MNgirl@thebeach 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋