What should I do? I really need you guys right now. I am starting to see who my real friends are now. I am seeing this guy for about 1 month and half now. But everytime I try to talk about US he changes subject and always says he doesnt know what he wants. I am kind of getting tire of the same thing everyday. He always hides stuff from me and I know it and finally confirmed it. He left his computer unlocked and curiosity told me the truth (I know i'm wrong but he never wants to talk). He's been talking to people online and wanting to meet them and stuff. He is doing stuff that people should not be doing when they are in a relationship. How should I talk to him about this.
2007-12-20 05:17:23 · 6 answers · asked by evanesheaven1985 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Sounds like he's just not that into you. Sorry. I guess you guys should just break it off and you should move on.. I know that's hard when you're really into someone... but at least you've only been dating for a month.
The other (less-likely) option is that he's look because he wants to open up your relationship to outside sex and/or 3-ways. I would definitely think twice before getting involved in any of that weirdness.
Sorry, dude, good luck recovering.
2007-12-20 05:21:40 · answer #1 · answered by tidy mess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best to come right out and ask him.
It would appear that he doesn't share with you the same feelings that you have with him.
Get it all out in the open, you'll probably wind up breaking off your relationship. If that happens - just move on. There are plenty of others out there.
2007-12-20 05:22:49 · answer #2 · answered by nycguy10002 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him on it and tell him how u feel. see where his heads at and tell him to be honest as well as u being honest. otherwise, jus break it off with him. u guys hav only been together for 1 month and there are plenty of hot and respectable men out there so take advantage. good luck
2007-12-20 05:23:39 · answer #3 · answered by memybaby11804 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of guys don't want an LTR, I know that I didn't.
2007-12-20 05:21:44 · answer #4 · answered by Guessses, A.R.T. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesnt sound like he is as commited to you as you are to him.... maybe its time for you to look elsewhere. good luck
2007-12-20 05:22:54 · answer #5 · answered by AZBOY 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe he's not comfortable about talking about the u.s!
u cant force him to.
2007-12-20 07:30:43 · answer #6 · answered by Tiara H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋