remember that girl I was having trouble with now she is going around telling every guy that I like them and which I don't and see and she says other stuff about me that I won't mention because I could get reported what should I do In this situation????????????????? :(
2007-12-20 04:13:42 · 11 answers · asked by Tina P 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If I were you..now what would I do? I would have to change my interest from chasing boys to being studious,and I would put on my reading glasses with my home work in one hand. I would walk up to the guys and say "Oh hello are you looking for some one"..then just walk away.
2007-12-20 05:02:37 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
She clearly hopes you will confront her so she can get into a big drama with you, and then spread lies about THAT. My advice is, don't say a word to her. Ignore this whole thing as though it's nonexistent. The guys she's talking to are all going to think she's a pest/idiot. Especially if she's telling multiple guys the same thing. She's only making herself look like a fool. Let her keep doing it and see how the whole thing backfires. Seriously - it's going to be gratifying.
2007-12-20 05:31:51 · answer #2 · answered by Marina 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Millions, or even hundreds of millions of people use this site, so, no, no one seeing this question saw or remembers other questions.
You need to always give all relevant details so we know what's going on.
But if she's telling your secrets, just flatly deny everything, and, with a straight face, say you don't know why she's making stuff up.
Then drop it.
The bigger a deal you make of it, the bigger a deal it becomes.
In the future, don't blab your secrets to people until you know you can trust them to keep them secret. This takes time and careful observation. (If they blab other people's secrets, then you know they can't keep secrets.)
If she doesn't get strong reactions from you, then everyone will soon get bored with the whole thing.
2007-12-20 10:24:16 · answer #3 · answered by tehabwa 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could talk to her and sort this situation out, but if that doesnt work then you'll just have to ignore her and move on. I think that a soon as she notices that you have better things to pay attention to, she will juat get tired and hopefully stop. Good Luck!
2007-12-20 04:23:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Harold W. Your education is so much more important than anything else. I would try to resolve this issue with her and then move on. You do not need people dragging you down,this time in your life is hard enough as it is.You will get through it though!
2007-12-20 05:14:29 · answer #5 · answered by Angela W 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to speak to her and politely set things straight.
she has no right to say untrue things about you and unfortunately she is horrible for saying the things you
cannot mention.
your second question, my parents passed away long ago,
i have no family but some wonderful friends.
you asked an excellent question for some people get
along better with friends than family. contact me anytime
that i can be of help. good luck and
god bless. jerry
2007-12-20 05:02:41 · answer #6 · answered by Jerry S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off you need to have a talk with her and ask her what her problem is with you. If this going on at school then go to the school Principle and let him/her know this girl is harassing you.
2007-12-20 11:32:57 · answer #7 · answered by glamour04111 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U shouldn't let her do that. U should talk to her, and ask her why she's doing this to you. She probably has a problem at home, or school.
2007-12-20 23:34:12 · answer #8 · answered by Vida H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have a heart to heart talk with her,express your feekings,then if you can clear it all up,drop her. Friends like that you don't need.
2007-12-20 04:35:04 · answer #9 · answered by woodburner 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to speak to her and clear the air...
2007-12-20 04:20:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋