Has anyone every left their wife and kids for another woman? And if so, has it worked out with the other woman?
2007-12-20 03:48:29 · 7 answers · asked by typershark 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
On a guilt trip aren't we?
2007-12-20 03:54:50 · answer #1 · answered by islandgirl God and family 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Why can't you men be Honest with your spouse. It's because you want your cake and eat it to. And that is just wrong. My husband cheated and took him back. We weren't getting along and I could understand why he did but, it does not make it any easier. We had been together for 26 years, that's why I allowed him to come back and the fact that we still loved each other and he was so sorry. He realized he had made a hugh mistake. First off don't think you can go back to your wife without confessing. And, be prepared to go the distance if she will have you back. Beg her forgiveness and be willing to go to counseling and give her your all. You don't necessarily have to tell your kids. But, your wife was suppose to be your mate, the other half of you. And, you forgot that. Cut it off Totally with the other woman. Break if off, don't speak to her, don't call her, don't help her out, nothing. If it's over it should be over!!! If it's not over don't bother your wife, she has enough to deal with. This is your fault. Accept that and deal with it. If you love your wife and want her back allow her to tell you how she feels and help her. You may have to say you are sorry for awhile, for as long as it takes. Tell her she is the one for you you don't know what got into you. You were a fool. If you don't feel that way, live on your own, but, don't choose someone else's kids over your own. That is just the sorriest Dad ever. Be a man and own up to your mistakes, everybody makes them. If both of you still love each other it can work. But, be committed to be faithful !!
2016-04-10 09:39:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dad left my mom for another woman when I was 11 years old. that was 10 years ago. i'm sure it works out for some people but not for others. remember your kids in doing this though. it was so hard for the me, my brother and sister when my dad left. he was still apart of our lives but when you come home from school and know that your dad isn't going to be there when you get there everyday, except to pick you up on fridays for the weekend visits, that hurts. my dad is not with the other woman, she thought well he cheated on his first wife what makes me think he won't cheat on me attitude and she kinda went crazy with jealousy and dad couldn't take it anymore. i hope you make the right choice. good luck and god bless
2007-12-20 04:05:17 · answer #3 · answered by Amy l 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the one I know about has been married to the other woman for 2 1/2 years. But it has cost him a lot financially and infinitely more with his children
2007-12-20 04:01:17 · answer #4 · answered by Virginia 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have not, but I have seen it. They still hve to be able to communicate because of the children. Unless you can work things out with your ex, I'm sure it will be difficult. The one I saw, didn't work, too much drama for the new "woman". Then he was without anybody.
2007-12-20 03:58:45 · answer #5 · answered by 400lbtwins 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like anything else in life its a roll of the dice.
2007-12-20 04:11:21 · answer #6 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The grass ins't greener............just the same ol grass
2007-12-20 04:04:56 · answer #7 · answered by LilSunbeam 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋