2007-12-20 03:42:51 · 10 answers · asked by s m 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Cherry Poppin' Daddy's say "the best way to get over someone is to get under someone else".
Stop calling her the names you have been (at least where she can hear them). Go join a gym and work out..boxing is great exercise and therapy! Look HOT, feel great! Go out with friends..meet some ladies...and do NOT talk about your ex.
When they ask..."i was married...she wasn't. end of story."
When she sees you are looking good, feeling good, in control and really could care less about her lyin' skanky @ss...she will know she missed out on what could have been forever...and will ache privately.
2007-12-20 03:50:22 · answer #1 · answered by foxinsox 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. She's your ex-wife for a reason. Don't worry about making her jealous. Put the effort into making yourself the best person you can be. Be happy.
2007-12-20 11:48:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Two wrongs will never make a right,,Trust me. The best way to get over it is to focus on yourself and try to heal. Involved yourself in activities that will keep your mind occupy. Be positive,,Hang around positive people. You have a life to live,,,this is your time,,,enjoy your fredom and move on...Forget about revenge or bad feelings,,,don't dwell on the past!
2007-12-20 11:48:29 · answer #3 · answered by KingDavid 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
time will help you heal -- we go through stages of grief after and during a divorce, hon.. and it takes us TIME to move on and readjust to life. For the average person, this means 1-2 years.
you don't have to "make her jealous"... just do nice things for yourself. keep busy... maybe take a class, join a gym, spend time doing things with friends/family. a hobby?
you can date, but if you haven't been apart that long, i wouldn't get involved with someone new, especially since you probably have nothing to give emotionally... your energies seem to be spent on worrying about the ex.
take the time you need to heal, and if you need to talk with someone, maybe a therapist can help.
you can also try a Yahoo search for LIFE AFTER DIVORCE, COPING WITH DIVORCE for support and good information.
2007-12-20 11:49:05 · answer #4 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're looking for a way to make her jealous, then you're not moving on.
2007-12-20 12:30:07 · answer #5 · answered by Nandina (Bunny Slipper Goddess) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be happy, get a better car, dress better, lose weight, have a good looking girl around ur arm...that should get her jealous, good luck
2007-12-20 11:47:22 · answer #6 · answered by loving life 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's your ex......why would you care any longer?
Your best revenge is to go on and life your life to it's fullest and not looking back.
2007-12-20 11:48:03 · answer #7 · answered by Ella 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on with your life, be genuinally happy, and don't show her any emmotion where she is concerned. It will drive her crazy!
2007-12-20 11:47:48 · answer #8 · answered by LilSunbeam 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
success is the best revenge, hands down... just move on ,get in shape, get a new hot chick..
2007-12-20 11:49:12 · answer #9 · answered by freakinjokers_serious 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
believe in karma... u dont have to make her jealous, she has already lost.
she will get what is coming to her
2007-12-20 11:48:41 · answer #10 · answered by Holly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋