As long as my children are self sufficient and happy,
I'll be alright. I hope I am old enough so they will not be
completely devastated by losing their mom. That's what I worry about.
Sarelda, you are not weird. I have told my sisters to make sure I look like I normally do. No dress, no heavy makeup
and so forth. I also do not have my cemetery plot yet, so I told them to make sure I'm buried under a tree. I like the shade.
2007-12-20 02:55:37
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answered by ? 5
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Yeah, I worry sometimes that what if something happens to me, my son is so young (6 on 12/24) I want him to have lots of memories. Like remembering how we cuddle on Sunday mornings and scratching each others back, that I would read to him..so when he is older he knows his mom loved him. Memories that when he's a dad he can say... my mom and me used to do this too.
I have also wondered things like, what outfit would they put me in (I have told them sweat pants and a T'shirt. I want to be comfortable), who would go through my things and stuff like that. Yeah, I know I'm weird but hey I think about all kinds of stuff.
2007-12-20 10:46:16
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answered by Sarelda 5
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Not to much, I think sometimes what if I was to die tomorrow, how would that affect my husband and girls, just because my girls are so young--well a 2 are.
If I die after they are grown, I won't worry so much because I know I will have gave them the love and the tools they need to live their life but I would still worry about my husband, I know he would fall apart and that makes me sad.
2007-12-20 10:43:38
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answered by Ozark Butterfly 5
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Yes.
2007-12-20 10:43:08
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answered by Michael B 5
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right now is not a good time for me to ponder such subjects I am just way too addicted to living
2007-12-20 10:40:40
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answered by FallenAngel© 7
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No, the other way around.
Its sad to think about, though.
2007-12-20 10:45:40
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answered by G 3
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no, it's more like the other way around.
everyday i'm worried.
2007-12-20 10:39:42
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answered by Tosh 3
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No. Gosh, that's so depressing.
2007-12-20 10:38:49
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answered by 1234 2
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ha well no i havent that is pretty depressing.. i have never thought about that...
â¥
2007-12-20 10:44:04
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answered by <3_gorgeous_blue_eyez_<3 3
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yes...
that's too deep to get into now
2007-12-20 10:39:56
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answered by Ginz 3
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