2007-12-20 01:36:16 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Everything has its price.... Being in a relationship, this fear of being left alone, is only natural. So we must always prepare ourselves to face that moment ( IF it ever comes ), with reason and common sense.
Besides, if we philosophize a bit, we can say that we can never feel abandoned if we take care and love the person we are.
2007-12-20 01:45:25 · answer #1 · answered by Alice in Wonderbra 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not abandoned. You should be comfortable in a relationship enough to feel safe..
People have paranoia which is the feeling of something going on you dont know about but it involves you.
Are you paranoid that your partner is going to abandon you? Its not really being abandoned is just splitting up Sh*t Happens.
2007-12-20 09:53:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope - sorta the purpose is, among other things, to not feel lonely and abandoned.
Could go into this a ton more, but seems others here are addressing the insecurity issue. Just should observe, if someone feels that way, it's quite possible that fear will force the person to MAKE it happen. Be careful!
2007-12-20 09:55:11 · answer #3 · answered by Der Lange 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you work on what you can improve or something you can help with. If you are being abandoned then you are being abandoned there is not much else you can do
2007-12-20 09:43:22 · answer #4 · answered by lovingula 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have never worried about it but I have worried about how I am going to end it. That was in my younger days! Now I am married and don't need to worry about it. We were made for each other I guess.
2007-12-20 11:49:18 · answer #5 · answered by KELJO 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, of course.
But I prefer to have myself indulge in the present moment,
enjoying every minute with him, and not worry too much for the future.
2007-12-20 09:45:44 · answer #6 · answered by Heaven Hill 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Got a divorced after 31 years this year, yes I was abandoned, it sucks!!!
2007-12-20 09:39:49 · answer #7 · answered by kim t 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Sure, but you know what's weird? I actually DREAM about being abandoned by her far more than I worry about it in waking life.
2007-12-20 09:39:47 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I have done that in the past, but it's not worth the strain it puts on me or on the relationship.
Also, I never wanted anyone that didn't want me, so it often conflicted with my values, as emotions often do.
Peace.
2007-12-20 10:02:33 · answer #9 · answered by -Tequila17 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I use to when I first starting dating guys, and I would bug them about it so much that I would eventually get left anyways...but now I'm afraid of falling in love too deeply, so I'm usually the one doing the leaving. I know it sounds bad, but I like to protect myself.
2007-12-20 09:43:30 · answer #10 · answered by Ray Ray 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋