A few days ago my best friend was in my room, we were just talking, and then we started wrestling each other. He sort of pinned me down on my bed, and my legs happened to be wide spread, and his groin was directly on mine. It was so sexually arousing, and at that time, he just felt like the hottest guy in the world. He just continued to wrestle me. I could feel his erection though.
I sort of found out im gay after doing that with him. I don't know what to do. He's coming round today, and I think I should make a move, but I don't know how. Shall I kiss him? Or just go on top of him instead? I have all of these desires, but I need advice.
Please help!
2007-12-19 23:50:53 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
WOW! Great answers so far. I really want to get some of his clothes off. I'm 16, and so his he. Thanks guys!
2007-12-20 00:52:48 · update #1
Tread carefully, there maybe nothing in it.
See if he makes a move on you by starting another wrestling match.
2007-12-19 23:55:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Start another wrestleing match
If you both get aroused, get yourself on top and really push your groin into his.
If he doesn't push back or throws you off then he's not interested.
Or you could alweays wrestle in such a way that his groin ends up in your face and "accidentally" touch his bulge with your mouth and see what happens......
let us know how you get on.
P.J. if he in the UK, then 16 is the legal consent age so you should not feel ashamed, otherwise you are a bad man LMFAO!
;-)
2007-12-20 10:51:26 · answer #2 · answered by cmcconnachie2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Genital contacts always aroused a man, it is just a physical reaction. The same way that a woman can arouse a Gay man by physical attouchments.
What happens to you does not make you Gay.
If you are Gay you would be truly attracted by Man and possibly fall in love with one.
There is a big difference between being aroused by some physical contacts and being Gay.
You have now to figure out what you truly are.
2007-12-20 08:52:28 · answer #3 · answered by Minotaure 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I read your question and immediately got aroused,then as I scrolled down I saw that you are 16.Now I feel dirty.There should be an age disclaimer at the top of any question asked by anyone under 18!!! That's hot though,go for the groin,good luck....I'm off to confession!!!
2007-12-20 09:55:01 · answer #4 · answered by ... 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave it to him to make the move. If he wants to then he will. Maybe the other day he was trying to assess the situation?
How old are you? It might be that you're going through a lot hormonally and you're confusing lust with a definition of your sexuality. Having those feelings doesn't necessarily mean you're gay, so don't try and pin everything on this one moment.
Just keep an eye on the situation, and if you want to explore your feelings with your friend, that's fine, but wait for him to make the move. You can make it obvious that you wouldn't say no, but you need to tread carefully and not just throw yourself at him cos you could end up making one hell of a situation. Good luck :)
2007-12-20 07:58:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
It's not wierd.It is an indication that both of you are gay.You shouldn't kiss him but you guys definitely ought to wrestle again.Try ripping some of his clothes off while you're rolling around.And remember,when you're wrestling,your hands can go anywhere.Enjoy.
2007-12-20 08:21:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nothing weird in this, but as Boy Wonder said, tread carefully. I hope the best for you , I really do!
2007-12-20 16:28:00 · answer #7 · answered by RICHARD S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting aroused does not make you gay. If you value your friendship tread carefully.
2007-12-20 10:43:42 · answer #8 · answered by LillyB 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is interested, it will come around naturally. You should know that friction feels good to anyone-that doesn't automatically make you gay.
2007-12-20 07:56:13 · answer #9 · answered by charmar79 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are a very lucky guy, there are all sorts of options. im me for private opinion.
2007-12-23 11:41:27 · answer #10 · answered by eastanglianuk1951 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋