The wife and child are waiting for the man to come home and they are living separately. He is dating many women and having sex with both the women and his wife. And the wife knows about it.
Even with marriage problems, why would he do this to his family? All he cares about is getting sex, yes. Does he think that everything wil be fine and dandy if he goes back to his family when he's old and can't get it up anymore?
Or is he just get all he can, and whatever happens come hell or high water?
2007-12-19 23:01:02 · 11 answers · asked by wondering 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The child is only a few years old. He does pay the expenses and takes the minimum care for them, like shopping and drive each other if need be.
2007-12-19 23:12:56 · update #1
They do have communication problems that aren't working out.
2007-12-19 23:18:25 · update #2
What is he thinking, is he just too lazy to file for divorce himself or is it that since she isn't leaving, he'll just keep having sex with his girl frends and his wife? It seems like she isn't leaving so he is just doing whatever he wants. He probably doesn't care if she leaves?
2007-12-19 23:24:17 · update #3
He is at girlfriend's place every weekend. And the wife is still waiting on him.
2007-12-19 23:51:32 · update #4
his wife and family are of no concern to this man, why would the wife be waiting on him? she should be planning her future, and seeking the advice of an attorney on how to come out of this as financially well as she can. he has already left her, there is no marriage anymore, based on his actions. its part of his character and who he really is, he doesn't love her or the kids, and should have to pay dearly in divorce court.
2007-12-19 23:10:58 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That man does not want to divorce his wife so he is out having fun and getting some from his wife when he can. By their actions, this living situation must be working for them or they would not keep doing it and get divorced. Men will have sex with someone else, if there is an opportunity, no matter the circumstances. The man is doing what is working for him right now.
2007-12-19 23:38:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nobody really knows what's in his head. But do YOU want him back? If you do - then do something to reconcile. Just having sex with him won't bring him back. If you don't - you file for divorce, no need to wait for him to do it. He's too busy for it, and he doesn't really need a divorce. He'd need it if he wanted to get married to someone else, which he apparently doesn't. He is OK with this situation, and you are not. So you should be the one to act on it rather than sitting and waiting for him to change or for both of you to get old.
Aren't you worried that he'll infect you with something one day? Sounds like he has more than one woman on the side. That's just unhygenic.
2007-12-19 23:33:50 · answer #3 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My question would be: Why is this wife waiting? Doesn't she have any self-respect?
And why is she exposing herself to sexually transmitted diseases? Because if she allows him to sleep with her when she knows he is sleeping with other women, that is exactly what she is doing.
In order to protect her health, the wife needs to stop sleeping with this man immediately. She needs to seek counseling. If the man will not go with her for marriage counseling . . . then she needs to seek counseling alone.
If the problems in this marriage cannot be resolved, then the wife needs to consult an attorney . . . to protect her rights and those of her child. She needs to start considering divorce.
2007-12-19 23:08:36 · answer #4 · answered by Suz123 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in case you're legally separated out of your spouse (and you do no longer definitely want a rfile for this in the united kingdom - except you're caught residing in the comparable abode simply by fact of economic reasons) then you definately can date whenever you sense it is appropriate. i think of I waited approximately 3 hours after isolating from my first husband and approximately 2 days after isolating from my 2nd!! it is appropriate which you will do with a while residing on your guy or woman, yet that does no longer mean you won't be able to have exciting!! human beings generally say which you're nevertheless cheating in case you're nevertheless married considering is the two the way the regulation works the place they stay or simply by fact of a few non secular reason. in the united kingdom it would not artwork that way, yet as somebody else factors out, no ought to rub your ex's face in it and keep any relationship removed from the babies (in case you have any) for an prolonged time yet.
2016-11-23 17:04:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-12-20 00:15:57 · answer #6 · answered by pussycat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wife needs to stop having sex with him period. this will end him going back and forth. she need to file for child support and divorce and move on from this man. he has no intentions on returning to his family at this point in his life so she need to focus on self and child. men will treat woman you allow them to. so at this point he has no respect for her and is using her for when he wants to be bother knowing that she wants him to come back home. but she really need to move on. GodBless
2007-12-19 23:17:40 · answer #7 · answered by Crystal G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wont divorce her because the wife doesnt seem to mind cause she deals with it. hes living his life the way he sees fit for him. the wife should file for divorce, get him on child support and srart living her life.
2007-12-20 00:27:24 · answer #8 · answered by jstagirl1969 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but I think it's time for a divorce.
2007-12-19 23:05:04 · answer #9 · answered by Melissa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that it nasty as h*** and you put up with it you need a divorce and a man to treat you right
2007-12-20 00:39:14 · answer #10 · answered by G T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋