Why do you want me to love you?
Just be yourself...i'll love you as you are, not the one you are pretending to be!
2007-12-19 22:04:40
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answer #1
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answered by manish_wolfyfox 5
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Not a thing.
A long time ago I thought that love was something that you reserved for some special set of people that you had judged worthy of it.
After a while I got to thinking about what Jesus had said about turning the other cheek and loving our neighbor I put the two together and realized that he had made no exceptions in these statements. It became obvious to me that he intended that we exclude no one from the love that we are supposed to be giving. I started thinking about my idea of love and suddenly realized that I had not been loving anyone at all. I had simply been judging everyone and every thing.
Judging someone worthy of love is not love, it is only judgment. I actually started to cry when I realized this. I saw just how much of my life I had wasted being judgmental, thinking of myself as a Christian, when I was actually doing just the opposite of what Jesus had asked us to do.
I thought about the verse judge not lest ye be judged, and I understood it for the first time.
I realized that I have a lot of catching up to do. So many opportunities were wasted. I now try to apply the love that I have for the world in a universal way like Jesus asks us to do.
If I start to feel afraid and think that I see someone that I should not love because of something I have thought or heard I try to catch my mistake as soon as possible. I tell myself that I have forgot the truth and have fallen for the same old trick that had cost me so many opportunities to be loving in the past. The horror of this realization is often all that is necessary to bring me back to my senses and make me drop the judgmental nonsense I was thinking.
I still have a lot to learn about love, but at least I’m making progress.
Love and blessings
Your brother
don
2007-12-20 00:44:46
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answer #2
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answered by Anonymous
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Kristy, no one can "make" another love the other! The EMO was looking for S---you know what! Take care! Have a good Christmas! Jimmy.
2007-12-19 23:14:22
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answered by Jimmy 6
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I am glad you have shared with us the newest scam to get a woman's clothes off and her cooperation at the same time. I would have told him that he reminded me of my favorite brother, a relative, platonic....hint....no touchy feely...and then sit back and see what sort of "love" he was trying to ignite in you. Clever rascals. Still there is the chance he was brought up in foster care and really needs the feeling of a loving family. Then if he looks interesting and emotionally stable, you might want to have a non intense conversation with him, clothed. With his hands on his side of the table. He might be a decent enough man who is lonely this time of year who would really appreciate a feminine friend.
2007-12-19 22:07:48
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answer #4
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answered by sliverofmoon2000 2
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1: be firends 2: get to no him 3: then give him x x & o o 4: mark love 5: is stat tother as long as pos-bill form ur buddy fuddy wuddy x
2007-12-21 12:20:35
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answered by dylan gilmore 2
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Gross.
I can see some drunk @sshole trying to get in my pants and handing me that line. I was young once.
I would have told him off very loudly and moved to another spot at the bar.
2007-12-19 22:18:17
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answer #6
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answered by Gorgeoustxwoman2013 7
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are you asking for a answer for; the guy, or what the guy has to do?
a answer for the guy, answers obviously no sorry its not going to work. lol
If you wanted me to love you? all you have to do is talk to me get close and show your interested I like it when girls touch me, it shows that they are comfortable with me or like me, but if i dont like you im not going to feel anything im not going to love you, but kristy you are of the good sorts so im sure we would hit the ground running. :) but i think your a bit to old for me. dammit i always like chicks older then me.
2007-12-20 00:16:23
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answer #7
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answered by No use for a name! 2
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Buy me a pint of Murphy's Irish Stout.
2007-12-19 22:05:10
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answered by Dustbowl Blues 3
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Just rub yourself with me, get the results
2007-12-20 00:54:57
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answered by Anonymous
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well you could start by buying me a ferrari and a speed boat ........ nah, jus kidding .............. really?? somebody did that?? geez, that must have been a touch awkard!! i spose i would have told him that he was way to precious for me as i tend to be a bit of a boofhead sometimes and would probably wreck his stylish image.......... you know, beanies, ugg boots, get the drift!!
CHEERS
♥
2007-12-19 22:13:30
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answered by Minx 7
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