I've been told once that there is no such thing as bisexual. They said that a man in a relatioinship with a women who desires a man, is just a gay waiting to come out of the closet. Is there truth to this?
2007-12-19 20:54:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Just be yourself and do whatever you want to do, Try anything you want and find out for yourself what you are really looking for. But don't get too crazy. When you try something new and you like you might loose control of yourself just use your brain. That's what is that for.. use it!
2007-12-19 21:20:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
To be honest with you, as a Gay man, I never truly believed in man bisexuality. I always considered that man bisexuality is some kind of shield Gay men in denial uses to protect themselves against the prejudices of heteros. Something like to say, see I'm not Gay I like women too and once in a while I like to spice up my life with a man. But I may be wrong.
Technically I could be regarded as a bisexual because I've been married and even have had two children. But deep in me I have always been Gay. Not a single minute in my life was I straight or bi. I knew it and though chose for an hetero marriage to try and escape my homosexuality (social pressure, family pressure... etc), to have the so called "normal" family life, until I could no longer cope with this lie and I divorced and came back to my Gay life and my true nature. I am exclusively attracted to man and when I was having sex with my ex-wife, shame on me, I was closing my eyes and imagining that I was doing it with a man...
Actually only you knows the truth about your nature. It is deep inside you. Hope you'll find it.
Take care.
2007-12-19 23:14:45 · answer #2 · answered by Minotaure 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is a gay culture, and I am sure a lot of gays and lesbians would be proud to say they are part of the gay culture. It is one of activism and fighting for equality rights. Just look at an edition of Out Magazine or something of the like. Now, being a homosexual does not mean you have to be part of the gay culture, and I do not believe in a gay agenda. But there is a sub-culture fueling PRIDE and I don't believe it is a negative thing.
2016-04-10 09:15:29 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, there is no truth to this. Some people are genuinely attracted to both sexes and are bisexual. I think the myth of bisexual guys being closet gays comes from some guys who are gay saying that they are bisexual to help ease themselves out of the closet. It's also more media-friendly for famous guys to be bisexual than homosexual - they are just "normal" guys who like a bit of dick now and again, as opposed to homos. The late, great Freddy Mercury was referred to as "bisexual" in the British press - yeah, a bisexual who had sex exclusively with guys.
You know whether you are genuinely attracted to females, males, or both. And if both, whether you are more strongly attracted to one than the other. Don't let other people tell you who you are or who you can be. Discover that for yourself and be happy with what you find.
2007-12-19 21:03:09 · answer #4 · answered by thatgaybloke 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm totally straight, but I believe in bisexualness.
I think that.. there is like a scale:
1 = totally gay
2 = somewhat attracted to women
3 = both men and women rock!
4 = somewhat attracted to men
5 = totally straight
I think it's actually a larger spectrum then that. But you could be like.. a 2, you know? be more gay then bi, but not totally either.
SO- it's just up to you. you may find a woman you totally click with, or you may find a man you totally click with.
good luck
2007-12-19 21:00:01 · answer #5 · answered by natalie 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
hey! I am bisexual!
can men be bisexual too? that puzzles me! I've never met a true bisexual man! That is just my own personal experience though! My husband says he knew a man that was bisexual!
I would like to see how everyone else answers this question!
2007-12-19 21:18:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Personally, I think everyone is bisexual. We all hold the ability to love another human being.
2007-12-19 20:59:26 · answer #7 · answered by 雅威的烤面包机 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
NO. I THINK THEY ENJOY BEING WITH BOTH SEX . BUT ,THEN WHO CARES IT'S 2007.
2007-12-19 20:59:32 · answer #8 · answered by 10-T3 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A saying from my gay friends goes like this:
If a man tells you he is bi, that means, bi the way, I am gay.
2007-12-19 21:00:46 · answer #9 · answered by nesmith52 5 · 0⤊ 5⤋
who cares...everybody can get what they want..no laws against that.
2007-12-19 21:01:40 · answer #10 · answered by Jack_23 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋