what would u do, if u caught your girlfriend / wife having sex with some other guy ???
2007-12-19 20:24:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
lol....no, i haven't done anything like this, and i don't plan on it either...i was just wondering what a guy would do...i just wanted to know from a guy's perspective....if my guy was cheating on me, i would leave him in a heartbeat.
2007-12-19 20:33:43 · update #1
CAN YOU SAY:
BLACKMAIL?
2007-12-19 20:29:07 · answer #1 · answered by BEAUTIFUL♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make a note to self
it would probably be a list of things said, done, and feelings about the cheating broad recently up to the point of the discovery.
i would determine when it was i realized she was not serious or had a different definition of the relationship than i did. most likely, you know when you meet them, especially after the first few sentences.
i need to ask this question to get a better feel of it, but, in my limited experience, the heartbreak was advertised in the first conversation with the girl. she might say "Some of my friends say I'm a *****.H a ha ha." Funny, right? Later on, you can't stand her always arguing and complaining about everything you do and you can't find any way to please her. Finally, she bails- or cheats. Surprise! She might say "I don't know WHAT I want." and she keeps you hanging on for weeks, or months if you're really into her and have absolutely NO self esteem, and then, out of the blue, she tells you "I met someone." What the hell was she doing with you all that time? Nothing better to do. She didn't know what she wanted until it finally came along. It's a matter of listening closely to what they are saying because they are giving you a big zeppelin over the playing field of love telling you exactly what time it is, but if you're too into your own game you miss it.
but you're probably wondering, what would I do with HER? I'm not vindictive. I would even listen to her explanation if it made her feel better about it, but I would know it's not about me and her anymore and I'd start packing- emotionally, mentally, and then physically departing.
2007-12-19 20:37:56 · answer #2 · answered by willmin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would definately end it! probably thank that guy, cuz now i would know what kind of person i was with to begin with! i would try to get over it and continue my life with out the skanky whore that is for sure. hope you didnt do something stupid like that. i say women if u dont want to be with the man your with. leave him before being a whore. thank you very much!
2007-12-19 20:31:39 · answer #3 · answered by handy1102002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did, he hurt for a long time, I had six months to serve. He left the area. End of story, our relationship has never been the same, this summer with be the "straw" but, my choice.
2007-12-19 20:33:01 · answer #4 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wont say anything to her...... I will try to accept the fact..... there cud be any reason behind it, so, why blame anybody without knowing the fact.
Wht do u say???????
2007-12-19 23:07:30 · answer #5 · answered by kaps 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wouldnt blame the guy, id blame my girlfriend then a break up
2007-12-19 20:27:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thank him for getting rid of the skank. Now he is stuck with her hehehhaha.
2007-12-19 20:27:23 · answer #7 · answered by AKBOY 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Not your girlfriend anymore.
Not your problem.
2007-12-19 20:28:17 · answer #8 · answered by ★Greed★ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hurt them bad
2007-12-19 20:30:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
turn around and leave, then break up with her.
2007-12-19 20:27:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
give her her freedom....and continue on with my own life.
2007-12-19 20:27:41 · answer #11 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋