Help! I'm a 13 year old male and I feel like I'm hiding something and I wanna tell my parents I masturbated! How do I tell my parents that I lost my virginity by masturbating?
2007-12-19 20:11:03 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
ROFL!! you dont loose ur virginity by jerkin off... you do when you have sex!
2007-12-20 07:54:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't lose your virginity. That only happens when you have sex with another person.
If you are comfortable talking with your parents about sex, then go ahead. Most people don't mention it, though, and most parents know that their children will masturbate sooner or later - just like they did (and probably still do).
There's a difference between "hiding something" and reasonable privacy. You're not necessarily hiding anything if you choose to keep your masturbation private.
2007-12-20 03:22:03 · answer #2 · answered by Tom V 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your feelings of embarrassment (hiding something) are normal for someone just encountering masturbation. There may be a lot of questions about it but most people define losing their viginity as intercourse with another person. If you have a good relationship with your parents and they can be trusted to keep things confidential, you might approach them by telling them you have a personal question that is bothing you. Then you could tell them how you're feeling about your first experiences with sex. It is important to let them know you trust them with this information and need their support.
Good luck
2007-12-20 10:05:23 · answer #3 · answered by Gary M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You haven't lost your virginity, mainly because you have yet to have sex with another person. You lose your virginity to another person, not to your hand. As for telling your parents, you don't have to if you don't want to, but it's kind of an unspoken understanding that everyone masturbates and it's also very awkward to tell people you are related to that you do so.
2007-12-19 21:02:06 · answer #4 · answered by Oleander 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You cannot lose your virginity masturbating just relax and enjoy your sessions. Only way you lose your virginity is when you have sexual intercourse with a women.. YOu really don't need to tell your parents that you masturbated.
2007-12-19 23:58:31 · answer #5 · answered by Pauly W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have not lost your virginity! One must have a successful sexual encounter with another person for that!
If your parents are anything like most parents, they already have a good idea that you are masturbating and probably don't really wanna discuss it with you! Why do they need to know anyway?
2007-12-19 20:24:46 · answer #6 · answered by bender_xr217 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I don't know why you would want to tell your parents. Do you tell them everything that personal?
Masturbating is something I could never discuss with my parents. I know they know I do it. My mom even caught me once but we never talked about it.
Just don't leave stains all over like on your sheets that your mom has to clean up.
2007-12-20 07:43:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget it. yoru parents do not want to know you masturbate any more than you wan tto imagine them having sex. Both are basically personal things we all do, we all know we all do and we all prefer not to announce to others.
however if you really need to talk about masturbation, why not with another guy your age; you can share tips and experiences with each other.
2007-12-22 14:54:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cant lose ur *virginity by urself
its no big deal anyway, everyone masturbate(including girls) its just that they dont have balls to say yes
why bother telling ur parents?
2007-12-19 20:15:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
ROFL. You can't lose your virginity by masturbating you silly goose!
2007-12-19 20:15:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
you havent lost your virginity and i wouldnt tell them you masturbate!!!! everyone does it...dont feel bad....they dont need to know really!
2007-12-20 00:33:59 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋