I grew up in a small town, so I always attended church of one faith or another. I've usually been attracted to women in the past. I had even joined the Mormon Church 14 years ago because I had always felt the need to fit in after I moved to Utah. I just felt like that I was supposed to be normal? Well, after 10 years of marriage to a gal in the Mormon church, I ended up going through a divorce because I finally realized that all the LDS rules just hold you back in life. Why wasn't there real sex ed back when I was in school? I've just never dated a cute guy. Although I'm 35 now, i feel like this new book is opening up. But yet, I'm just not sure about oral sex. Is that dumb? Or, should I not worry about the sex?
2007-12-19 17:47:41 · 6 answers · asked by Retrocaster 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I guess that from all the religous crap I've dealt with, I just have a hard time still accepting the fact that I could be gay. To quote the Pet Shop Boys...It's a Sin! And there have been a few guys that I had hung out with when I was single that I now know were gay. I feel like I missed the boat for real companionship. Now what do I do? Plus does it matter if you just fall in love with Erasure?
2007-12-19 17:53:19 · update #1
That didn't happen in gym class. Only after I had watched some porn.
2007-12-19 17:56:59 · update #2
Don't worry about sex, just do it. Be yourself. If you do not care much about oral sex you do not have to do it until you get used to the idea...if you ever do. Wish you a Merry Christmas and a very Happy New Year full of erotic encounters to take you out of the walls you have made for yourself. Be free, be loving, be YOU!
2007-12-19 17:57:10 · answer #1 · answered by AliBaba 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know if you are gay from that feeling you get when you like a guy... like your heart becomes heavy and he always makes you smile... probably the same for those who like women, so if you feel that way about both sexes I'd say you are bi but only you know that. You should try to go out with a guy and see how it goes. good lux!
2007-12-19 17:53:51 · answer #2 · answered by Jimmy M. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about sex.. now try to think about yourself and your feelings.. I know you can explore your sexuality and define yourself.. dont label yourself.. if you dont feel nothing for a woman. you might be gay.. even you like woman in feelings but sexually no.. then you are gay
2007-12-19 17:58:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll know you're gay when you want a d*ck!
i mean for reals... your sexual urgencies are geared towards men...
no offense... but yeah... maybe you are gay...
not sure? let's just say you're in a confused situation...
=D
2007-12-19 17:58:35 · answer #4 · answered by kitt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're gay if you feel like s*ck*ng. And then, if you feel like having children and wife, you are bi.
2007-12-19 19:21:55 · answer #5 · answered by truthseeker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, when you were in the shower during gym class, did you want to put anything in your mouth?
2007-12-19 17:55:45 · answer #6 · answered by Cornelius 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋