......would you TELL? =)
2007-12-19 17:03:17 · 60 answers · asked by Georgia Rose 7 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
If i saw my best friend `s spouse cheating on them, i would tell them straight away.
2007-12-19 22:53:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know the saying "Don't kill the messenger"? Well they might just wanna do that. So i would be very cautious in the way you tell them (if you do tell them). You could talk to the one thats cheating first to let them know. But be careful, for they might kill you for finding out (or they might break down in tears and cry about how sorry they are). If you are certain that your friend wont do anything stupid then yes I would say something.
2007-12-19 17:10:19 · answer #2 · answered by Bobo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would. I would do that because I would want someone to tell me if it was my spouse cheating on me.
2007-12-22 03:17:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that's depend if you decide not to tell. he or she will find out later and if you decide to tell something bad might happen, like separation, divorce or break up. so I will have to think about and reconsider if I'm doing the right thing or not but I will tell in a good minor because I don't want my friend to be hurt and cheat on. so In this case I will have to let him or her know that he/she being cheated on because I can't let my friend be hurt or stab on the back, if you know what I mean. remember they can cheat all they want but what goes around, comes around.
2007-12-19 19:12:30 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its your best friend, of course! Even the cheating spouse would expect you to tell if they knew you saw them!
2007-12-19 17:06:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No because it would hurt my friend if I told her something like that. She would never feel the same about our friendship after telling her you saw her husband cheating. Now telling him I saw him would be a different story.
2007-12-19 17:06:32 · answer #6 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I'd feel awkward, going over their house for dinners and what not, knowing what I knew and not telling my friend. However relationships are kinda sticky, and I normally don't like getting involved. What if they weren't cheating, and I just reaad the situation wrong? I'd probably be looked upon as that meddling @ss friend, who tried to break them up.I'd give him/her a heads up though. I'd want it. How would you do it?
-Knowledge24
2007-12-19 20:41:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd tell the spouse cheating that if they don't you would
and I'd also tell the 3rd party that the person was married
2007-12-19 17:05:17 · answer #8 · answered by HL2k 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh, I watched that happen -- the bosses wives were best friends and one boss was fooling around with one of the secretaries and the cleaning lady (who was also friends with the other bosses wife) caught them and told - so she told and OH MY that was fireworks. For me it would have to be actually "caught" doing the dirty deed, not just seen together with someone -- there are so many situations that could be misread.
2007-12-19 17:08:03 · answer #9 · answered by Bonnie L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely.
2007-12-19 17:05:39 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋