Got off the phone with a chick friend of mine and we had a discussion. She thinks its worse to cheat with an ex then with a new person and I say its worse with a new person than an ex.
Please dont say..'they are both wrong' not what Im lookin for. Want to know out of the two which is worse. I feel if U hav been with that person already and U cheat...its not a new notch under ur belt..but with a new person U hav added a notch. which do u think?
2007-12-19 16:23:54 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I understand that both r worse...but which is the worse of the two....?
2007-12-19 16:28:13 · update #1
thanks so far...this is what Im looking for.. it seems like i figured most girls would say ex..while dudes say new..and im right:)
2007-12-19 16:38:46 · update #2
Eric, Eric, Eric....
Can't you just enjoy some fun without having to feel bad about it? I am going to go for it and not care about what anyone thinks. heheh
Just kidding. Believe it or not I have never cheated. But if I were.....it would be with a new person. Why taste what you have already had when there are new flavors out there. LOL
xoxo*mwah*
2007-12-19 16:42:57 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It's worse to cheat with a new person. With an ex, it's comfortable, you've already done it before, and it's not like it's anything new, it's almost boring. With a new person, it's like you're either out looking and shouldn't be in a relationship, or you have no will power and will do anyone who walks by.
2007-12-19 16:34:23 · answer #2 · answered by Jay 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's worse to cheat with a new person. I mean, that person didn't even give the new boyfriend/girlfriend a chance. But if it's an ex, then everything's already been established.
2007-12-19 16:40:43 · answer #3 · answered by Britney♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cheating on an ex doesn't make sense. If they are an ex, you are no longer in a relationship with them. Therefore the answer has got to be with a new person.
2007-12-19 16:29:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be more hurt if it was with an ex rather than someone he just met. I dont' really know how to explain why though, I guess It's because that person has always been there and I would feel like I was just being used to try and get over them and that I was never really the one he wanted. Rather with someone new.. It was just someone he met that he liked.
2007-12-19 16:30:55 · answer #5 · answered by Hayley S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think that it is wrong either way but if i HAD to choose then with an ex..this happened to me and it hurt worse because when i found out it is like he still loved her more because he was willing to lose me for her. And on top of it come on we do not become friends with the new ones ex and truth be told most of the time the are our enimies because of the demon called jelousey so that is like a slap in the face on top of it all!!
2007-12-19 16:29:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd say worse to cheat with a new person -- but it's dumber to cheat with an ex.
2007-12-19 16:31:49 · answer #7 · answered by Bonnie L 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think both are wrong, but of the two, I think it would be worse to go with a new person.
2007-12-20 04:54:10 · answer #8 · answered by SnuggElbear 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if i had to choose. i'd say cheating on a new person is worse. you're already past the previous person with a new one...your going into areas you havent been before.
2007-12-19 16:31:32 · answer #9 · answered by storeetjdjay 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it is worse to cheat with someone new....especially if you are looking for "notches in your belt"
2007-12-19 16:27:23 · answer #10 · answered by barb 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋