I've found out that most girls in here wants or like to lose their virginity? Why? Is it worng to stay virgin?

Question

Thanx everybody for answering.... i do really appreciate that from you all.

First of all i am a boy not a girl :). Well, its kinda something worries me alot. I mean why do youg girls concerened to lose their virginity early or have sex. They do have a long way and infact they can satisfy themselves in a proper way "i mean marriage"

I believe sex is a wonderful thing that a humen can have... indeed its satisfies his/her sexual needs and thats natural.... i agree 100%. But do you think that girls or boys of 13-17 years are too young to enter the word of sex ??????

Thanx again to all for your answers.... Just i want to add this so we can talk deeper and its an opportunity for everyone to share their ideas.

I've got an answer from "enchante.." and she said "if the girl was feeling the right feelings and the right moment was presented then i guess thats what makes the right person to lose it to"

Ok.... i agree that if the right moment comes then its ok... with me i say fine. Then could anyone tell me and answer these bellow questions:

1. What you undertstand by what she said "if a girl was feeling the right feelings" ?????
2.When will the right moment happen to lose virginity?????
3. Who would be the right person to lose it for?????

Answer 1

It's the smart and safe thing to wait until you are married before you have sex, that goes for men and women. I'm waiting until I'm married because I do my best to live by Bible standards, but even if you're not religious, it's better for you health-wise and emotionally to wait.

So many of the world's ills would be solved if people would stop being selfish and reckless by having premarital sex.

Answer 2

i dont believe there is anything wrong with wanting to stay a virgin...in fact i think its a very wise decision to do so until you feel the time is right...there is so much stuff that comes along with having sex esp. at a young age... there's a possibly of getting pregnant, STDs, your parents finding out, and the boy leaving you. Although these things are still possible when your older, i think you would be able to handle the situation with a bit more maturity. Yes. sex is a beautiful thing, but only when its with the right person, but if its not, it can feel like the worse decision you have ever made......and besides if you're a virgin..you cant miss something you've never had..

Answer 3

i could fairly marry a virgin guy then a guy that may no longer a virgin (however i could carry it against him... my fiance wasn't a virgin going into our relationship and it hasn't made a great dent in our love lives or something lol), yet that could instruct that he enjoyed the belief of me sufficient to look ahead to me, did no longer desire 5 million STD's or toddlers by potential of multiple mothers, and grow to be confident sufficient to be attentive to he could be a solid lover without bedding 50 women in the past. P.S. I knew fairly some men that have been virgins at 19.... i do no longer think of they introduced that to their different guy buddies, yet they have been locate with telling me. a number of them purely hadn't met the excellent woman yet, and a few have been too busy with their different pastimes, and a few have been loss of lifestyles to lose it lol... i assume it take all varieties! So any age is great in my ideas to be a virgin, as long because of the fact the guy is style and eye-catching.

Answer 4

I think its very honorable to stay a virgin....but now a days..lets face it..its not common. Which is sad because sex is a beautiful thing..i know corny corny corny but it really is! I was unfortunate in losing my virginity....I did not consent and would have loved to been able to give it to the first person I experienced love with. A lot of girls just give it away now a days and it's sad. Making love to my husband is beautiful and it's unfortunate that I couldnt save myself for him. Like I said, for those who can save themselves until they are at least old enough to know about ALL the consequences are honorable. And those who wait until marriage are even more so.

Answer 5

virginity means nothing to me , so it is not a big deal whether i still have it , which i do , you see the thing is how you lose it and not "when did you lose it" if the girl was feeling the right feelings and the right moment was presented then i guess thats what makes the right person to lose it to

Answer 6

It's certainly not wrong to stay a virgin. You know that your virginity is something that is precious. It shouldn't be thrown away on someone you don't plan to spend the rest of your life with. I admire those who choose to save their most precious gift for their marriage partner. You can never give that gift away more than once. Make it count.

Answer 7

no, its whats best for you. you shouldn't just have sex, to have sex. you have sex because you're in the right moment with the right person. don't rush into things because you want to fit in because you think everybody's had sex, cause everybody hasnt. its worth waiting for, you will always remember your first time. and your virginity is something you can never get back

Answer 8

its not bad it still scares me hald to death just thinking about losing my virginity theres so many what ifs what if its bad? what if im bad? what if the condom brakes? what if i bleed a ton? what if.... well u see where im going im 18 and have been dating my boyfriend for two years hes a virgin too and we dont mind no sex it scares him too all the what ifs but one day the time will be right and yeah

Answer 9

There is nothing wrong with A Women or Man to wait to
lose there virginity.

Answer 10

No you are absolutely right we live in a society that degrades women, every where you go you see it. My advice to you lady's keep it until you meet that special person trust me as soon as i am done doing it i regret it.