What attracts women to men like this?

Question

Problemed individuals with deep rooted pain who are also very gifted and talented.

Answer 1

I should think they must be suffering from bpd too +-+

Answer 2

It would be easy to say that his being gifted and talented is what attracts the women. However in reality it is most likely the deep rooted pain. Women are nurtures. We like to take broken things and fix them or make them whole again. We do not like to see people in pain or hurting and will go out of our way to fix it for them. We will even go so far to help someone that we end up hurting ourselves. They see a man that can be fixed that also is very gifted and talented and how much more talent that he will be able to display once they solve all of his deep rooted pain.

Answer 3

Sometimes a lack of self-esteem. Hurting people associate well with hurting people. They often hope that the good qualities in the person will outweigh the bad ones or hope that they can change the bad ones. A good self image and a set of standards in a mate would certianly help.

Prayer never hurts too.

Answer 4

Do you know what makes a man feel attracted towards
a woman?

Imagine an invisible, undetectable force that's powerful
enough to override your sense of reason yet draws you
to someone with an almost animal passion. These aren't
Cupid's mythological arrows, but real shots of human
pheromones.

http://health.discovery.com/centers/sex/aphrodisiacs/phermones.html

Welcome to The Scent of Eros:
Mysteries of Odor in Human Sexuality -

'Scientists in Philadelphia have established for the first
time that the human body produces pheromones, special
aromatic chemical compounds discharged by one individual
that affect the sexual physiology of another'....

http://www.athenainstitute.com/discovery.html

Do pheromones work in human sexual attraction?

They may be odorless and colorless and their function may be
mysterious, but human pheromones at last have the zest of
scientific truth. Researchers at the University of Chicago
have demonstrated that compounds swabbed from the
'underarms' of young women at different times of the month
can alter the length of other women's menstrual cycles,
compressing or expanding the cycles in predictable
fashion....

http://www.ishipress.com/humanodo.htm

http://www.cnn.com/HEALTH/9803/11/pheromones/index.html

What is the force that lights the fuse between two
complete strangers? What current pulses through their veins,
engorges their hearts, occupies their minds and numbs their
texting fingers?

As magic formulas go, sexual chemistry must surely
be the most valuable. It's intoxicating effects are more
pleasurable and more powerful than any drug and when it hits,
it hits hard. There are the rushes of ecstacy, the gut wrenching
anticipation, fluttering, dizziness, and the diminished
concentration that turns day-dreaming into a full-time job.
And then there are the side effects. A positively Colombian
annihilation of appetite and its confidence- boosting by-product,
weight loss.

But no one knows what "it" is. Scientists have managed to
map our genetic blueprint. They understand the subtleties
of hormones and the complexities of the emotional brain.
But the thing that makes two people click remains a mystery.
Theories abound as to what, or why. Those looking for a
magic bullet (or Cupid's arrow) tend to favour the notion
of pheromones - scents secreted by the sweat glands in the
'armpits'....

http://findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_qn4159/is_20030629/ai_n12741733

Science of Love - Cupid's Chemistry:

Why do we love, what is passion, and why is intense
desire between two people sometimes called "chemistry"?

There are, in fact, three distinct stages of love; each with
their own characteristic emotional profile and scientific explanation.

First is lust. Lust is driven by our sex hormones testosterone
and oestrogen. These hormones are what get us 'out on the pull'.
After lust comes attraction. This is the love-struck phase;
the time when we lose our appetite, can't sleep, and can't
concentrate. This is what we know as falling in love.

http://www.thenakedscientists.com/HTML/articles/article/clairemcloughlincolumn1.htm/

http://www.thenakedscientists.com/HTML/content/interviews/interview/446/

The psycho-physico chemistry of love:

When two people are attracted to each other, a
virtual explosion of adrenaline-like
"nuerochemicals" gush forth.

Also, involved in chemistry are dopamine and
norepinephrine, chemical cousins of amphetamines.
Dopamine makes us feel good and norepinephrine
stimulates the production of adrenaline. It makes
our heart race!

These three chemicals combine to give us
infatuation. Tht is why new lovers feel euphoric
and energized, and float on air. New lovers can
make love for hours and talk all night for weeks
on end.

Now, imagine the combined effect of hormones and
pheromones.

It's bound to be mind boggling!

Answer 5

They give us the "bad boy appeal" and we think we can help them and they'res a sweet, romantic person underneath we just need to find him, read a few teen romance novels ,my friend. Edward is a vamp, but Bella still loves him( if u like vamp-human romances watch moonlight as well) ! LOL Bad example.

Answer 6

The social construction of femininity as ideally expressed through helping a man in a quasi-motherly way, especially if the man in question has traits they can be proud of (e.g. talent).

Answer 7

Is that you again mr troll with a new nick and another boring question? Give it up will ya!

Answer 8

they are interesting