I just want to die. These past two years of my life have been awful. I really just feel useless and lonely. It's everything between being in love with someone who doesn't love me and my friends and family. I know that there are people out in this world with way more problems than me. I know that commiting suicide is a one-way ticket to hell. I just can't seem to talk to anyone. I've had urges where I've wanted to say "I just want to die." But I don't have the courage to do that. I pray to God every night to make things better but nothing has happened. What do I do? I want to try to handle this on my own but before I start I just need some advice. I can't call anyone. I can't talk to anyone or go anywhere. I just want to have a fine life. I have my journal that I write in but it just makes me cry even more. I do some extracurriculars but I still feel so lonely. When I'm having a good day I am social. Thank you so much for helping me.
2007-12-19 11:11:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sounds like ur depressed, u should count ur blessings. Its not the end of the world and life does get better, if u allow it too. Have some faith and gratitude that things will get better, continue to pray and seek guidance through ur higher power. I to have battled depression where I thought I wanted to die, thank goodness I never acted on it. today things have gotten better and I'm beginning to see some light. I prayed and my prayers have been answered....... I no longer wish to die but have a new lease on life and so can u. Hold on, things will get better in time. God Bless!
2007-12-19 11:22:23 · answer #1 · answered by pokvet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. For a while, things were really rough with me too, my life was its own personal hell, but things got better. they always get better. It just takes time. Whenever I felt like I wanted to just give in, I thought of all the people that would be sad by my giving up, think of your parents. Your friends. They care about you. A LOT. Why can't you talk to anyone? Getting advice from a best friend always seems to help, or if at the very least, they are a good shoulder to cry on and a comfort. Do something for yourself every day that will make you happy, even if it is something as little as taking time to go outside and lie in the grass and look at the clouds for 5 minutes to clear your head. Every day do someting to make YOU happy........and honestly, if all else fails, it may not be your fault you feel this way, it could be a chemical inbalance in your brain (big words for depression, which IS infact a type of illness). See if things get better by doing little things for yourself and talking to a friend, and if not, I would definitely talk to your parents or your doctor and see if you can get things straightened out. Things will get better, I promise they will. Don't give up :) and good luck.
2007-12-19 19:18:55 · answer #2 · answered by Cai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how come u cant talk to anyone? they dont recognize how good and out of the ordinary u are? i think ur a special person. to me people who are sad all the time have more knowledge than people who arent. i think u should try to be happy by urself. or u can have just one friend and make that ur best friend. or u can get a pet like a dog or something. or have some fishes in ur room. they can be there all the time. u can also find urself a hobby that u love and u can do without ever getting bored so it takes ur mind off things.
2007-12-19 19:20:05 · answer #3 · answered by kevin v 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I felt like this alot too... once I grew up and got out of school I felt alot different about things, school always just had a way of making me feel very crappy, sometimes I felt like going in a talking to everyone while other days I just felt like I needed to crawl in a little shell... You should get closer to the people that you go to school with, I know everyone already has their clicks, friends and people they talk to, but theres always lots of people that like to meet new people, just start talking to other people outside your social group, call people at night just for the fun of it. get on the computer and IM people you know... but trust me... when you get older things will get better, it might not seem like it now, and it might seem like a long time to wait, but it really isn't, it's very tough being a teenager, but your only a teenager for 10 years and I bet your almost through your teen years anyway!
2007-12-19 19:29:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's some comforting words that can help you: 1 Peter 5:7, 10
2007-12-19 19:20:35 · answer #5 · answered by Star T 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should find a real good friend to help you out i know it's hard but hang in there it will get better i had a bad time this year but it is getting a lot better keep praying when you think you can't do it god says you can
2007-12-19 19:28:56 · answer #6 · answered by Etna C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you share your problems you can get answers, hmm if you think sucide is the only solution .. might be i should have died like 8 or 9 times by now. Choose a friend whom you can trust and take his/her help. Different minds think different ways , so might be he/she can give you good suggestions.
Talk to some one, it relieves lot of stress.
2007-12-19 19:17:05 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋