Monday night she texted me and told me she cut herself and that she was really upset, she asked me to get on msn that night and i said i would. I also said "well jeez that was real smart" when she told me. I didn't get on msn that night and I didn't get on till about 11:30p.m last night. Her display message was "sick of always f*cking waiting around* with a broken heart as her pic. She's grounded right now, thats why we can't actaully be together. I don't think I did anything wrong, but she won't even talk to me. I used to cut and she helped me through it and got me to quit. We've been together for 7 months. She's never done anything like this. Did I do something wrong? What did I do?
2007-12-19 09:26:39 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I know she really did cut. I asked her to text me a pic of it and yeah she did it.
2007-12-19 09:37:17 · update #1
Sounds like she is super sensitive. She probably would have gotten on immediately if it were the other way around and was hurt when you didn't.
She probably is having low self esteem because of what happened and thought that her boyfriend would show instant concern. Here she is grounded and not being able to go out for whatever reason and then her boyfriend didn't get on MSN like he said. She probably feels you really don't care about her, especially when you said you would go on MSN when she asked. You didn't, her feelings were hurt.
Personally, I wouldn't ignore my boyfriend. I would talk to him about it. That is what I expect, honesty and openness in every relationship.
2007-12-19 09:36:35 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean you didn't do anything wrong? You told her you'd be there for her and you weren't when she needed you. You also mocked an action that should be taken very seriously. You need to help her now, you better do something really big to make it up to her. You know how serious cutting is, being as you did it yourself. She is screaming for help
2007-12-19 09:34:55 · answer #2 · answered by Me, again 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is probably going through a very rough time in her life and needs to feel even more loved and protected than usual. A really sweet way of showing her that you care is baking her something or taking her somewhere she loves.
Good luck!! <33
2007-12-19 09:30:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! She really needs you right now and you're not there for her. What a boyfriend! You don't deserve her. If you were my boyfriend, I wouldn't just be ignoring you, you'd be out of my life. You've got off lucky buddy. Next time, (I hope there's not next time, though) be there for her and be a little more sympathetic! If she is doing this kind of thing, something is really wrong and she needs someone - be that someone, yeah?
2007-12-19 09:42:00 · answer #4 · answered by J| 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why cut yourself? What does that prove really?
She is mad cause you did not get on when you said and she is sick too for cutting so that is why she is acting like that. She needs help. I would tell her parents how she cuts herself. One of these times she might cut herself deep enough to bleed to death.
2007-12-19 10:05:43 · answer #5 · answered by ஐ♥Julian'sMommy♥ஐ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably just said that to get your attention. That's what a lot of girls do. When she didn't get your attention, she get mad. If you really think she's doing that, then I'd talk to her about it and be there for her. Don't just say "oh smart", because that's really insensitive if the situation is for real. Don't worry too much though, it's probably a false alarm. Cutters don't go around telling people what they're doing. Good luck! :)
2007-12-19 09:34:59 · answer #6 · answered by Pretty Maggie Money Eyes 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well, she just freaking cut herself! she is pretty emotionaly upset right now, and she prolly just wanted some comfort from her boyfriend. And since you weren't there, she got even more upset, and is really moody now.
Just talk to her, and tell her you love her, and stuff.. Comfort her! Lol
2007-12-19 10:08:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
um yes ive refused to talk to my boyfriend for less if you really care about her take her seriously if u were my boyfriend i would think you were and uncaring hot dog (but in a little less friendly of terms) talk to her tell her how much u care and that u are sorry
2007-12-19 16:05:57 · answer #8 · answered by Bookybell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh.... yeh, you think?
You used to Cut and she helped you through it.
She starts doing it and you ignore her cries for help.....
She hopefully has seen the error in her ways and has dumped you like a load of bricks.
2007-12-19 10:20:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You really should have been there for her. What was your reason for not getting on MSN to talk to her? You should have been on there. If she cut herself, something is going on in her mind. You need to talk to her ASAP and get her to seek help, before it spirals out of control.
2007-12-19 09:31:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 2⤋