It seems like my boyfriend's sex drive lately isn't so great.. It always has been, but lately it hasn't. He doesn't want oral as much, sex, not masturbating as often.. I know its not something I did, because we've always had great sex.. and he stills loves sex once or twice a week.. but it used to be everyday! Is this supposed to happen?
2007-12-19 09:21:21 · 15 answers · asked by curious 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I usually dress up for him
I've got a sexy santa outfit already picked out? I don't think hes bored
2007-12-19 09:26:43 · update #1
Don't you hate it when people feel the need to point out you have a question in the wrong category? It happens to us all from time to time as you just go with the default category. As for your question, It happens. Guys go through fazes. My boyfriend went through a similar thing when he was under a lot of stress at work then things went back to normal. Normal is about 3 times a week. Used to be morning and night when we first got together but we have been together over 2 years now so it does slow down. Don't let it worry you. It's natural.
2007-12-19 09:29:19 · answer #1 · answered by Kels_Bells 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, someone once told me, the more you play the same record, the faster you get tired of it. Maybe he's saving his gas, so that it lasts with you for the rest of his life. I gave you that example to start with because maybe its good you two slowed down, it may preserve your relationship. Prime example are parents, I've seen one old couple sleeping in serparate beds they were so tired of each other lol. Take Care!
2007-12-19 09:28:30 · answer #2 · answered by heartconscience 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Strong Like Bull!
2007-12-19 09:33:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ohhh man...scarey. Maybe he's getting his drive on another road? For your sake, I sure hope not. How old is he? Maybe he's just backing off a bit?
As for answering your question...LOL...most people here think my avatar is in regards to the fact I like driving cars....well, they got the "drive" part right, but it's not cars I enjoy driving so much....
...Whaaa-whoooooooo 24 hours a day, 7 days a week....gotta have it, wanna have it...
Seriously though, maybe he's just getting toomuch work pressure?
Try something different...dress up, act out a fantasy...tell him you want to be his little s*ck -n- f*ck doll...whatever it takes to get him back up and running!!!
Good luck!
2007-12-19 09:28:19 · answer #4 · answered by RacerX 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe he is getting bored with the same stuff.
try something different, like get a really sexy outfit or dress up and play role play or something , so the excitment is back :)
2007-12-19 09:24:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes, it happens. Even the best roller coaster gets tiresome after many rides.
2007-12-19 09:24:02 · answer #6 · answered by Steve C 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
He may just be in the "down" part of the cycle
2007-12-19 09:34:31 · answer #7 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe for some. Some people don't know how good they have it. Lucky guy.
2007-12-19 09:26:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hi.
2007-12-19 09:23:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
well
maybe he doesnt produce enough sperm daily anymore
or he might be cheatin on you
idk
2007-12-19 09:35:27 · answer #10 · answered by Jona 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋