Im 14 and ever since i told me friends i had a son they haven't been talking to me much i tried calling a few of them but they won't answer the phone so what am i losing my friends because i have a son?
2007-12-19 09:18:36 · 7 answers · asked by BSL Fighter 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
just to let you all know im a boy
2007-12-19 09:52:44 · update #1
! I think you shouldnt care much about them. They arent your real friends. Your son is the priority and you should concentrate on making friend with him rather then them, who will never be there for you. Your son's needs are more important then anyone!
2007-12-19 09:23:02 · answer #1 · answered by cherry babe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most families would not want their girls to hang out with a young girl or any girl that have children! they see this as a problem and would not want them to come home saying that they are going to have a baby, guess who will be blame for that? you already know the answer to that. So maybe you should just concentrate on your school work which you should get the best out of your education and be able to make a better life for you and your child. You just need to think about that,not who will like you and who don't, in life you will fine that you can not make everyone happy in life, just make your son proud and show him that you are working toward a better life for him. I hoped that I was able to shine a light on you and for you to know you will have better friends to come along, but right now you are very young and that GOD will place those who are understanding in your life and they will be your friend.
2007-12-19 09:33:57 · answer #2 · answered by laylay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What if I told you im gay. How would you react? I think you'd be a bit surprised at first and definitvly not talk to me the first couple of days. I doubt you'll lose em, just let em think about it for a couple of days. And no , im not gay - just to get that squared away...
2007-12-19 09:23:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probobly at 14 that is an adult problem that girls your age want no part of !
2007-12-19 09:32:03 · answer #4 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they think you are lying and don't want to be around you?
Or maybe they're afraid you'll ask them to babysit.
2007-12-19 09:21:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are probably just shocked and need some time to think.
2007-12-19 09:25:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe...
2007-12-19 09:23:05 · answer #7 · answered by EternalMusic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋