Me & my husband have been married for almost 12 years now. My so called best friend flirts with him right in front of me. She is a very attractive person who always have guys flocking to her. I always seem to brush it off when I notice the flirting. For the past 2 years or less he has run to her at her house everytime we've had a major fight to confide in her. Each time she would call me up afterwards & take his side. Recently, me & my husband have been fighting about why he runs to her. On top of all that he ran to her yet again but he says to tell her to back away from me & my husband. Should I be worried? In one of our fights recently, he did admit flirting with her. I'm just worried that it went beyond just the flirting. He said in one of our arguments that he ran to her cuz she is like a best friend...Tell me, can a husband have a best friend who is another woman? Or am I just being the stupid wife?
2007-12-19 09:16:34 · 12 answers · asked by RezChicaChicaBoomBoom 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
what they seem to be having is an emotional affair, which begins with secret sharing, venting about ones problems, than it escalates to something more, a full blown affair. it usually happens when marriages hit a rough spot, and the other woman sees her chance to move in. this woman is no friend, and is probably just waiting in the wings for the next bit argument so she can have what u have, especially if she likes what she sees, she will make a move towards him if u don't deal with the problems now. if he has flirted with her, its just a matter of time before it turns into more. yes i would be worried.
2007-12-19 10:50:49 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be very concerned...Some best friend you have....If she truly were your best friend she wouldn't condone your husband running to her everytime you have an arguement. ....She is YOUR best friend right? Then why doesn't she tell him to work things out with you and to not involve her in your problems... I think your instincts are telling you something....and I side with you...there is more going on than just flirting...
2007-12-19 17:24:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If this is YOUR best friend, she's certainly not acting like one. If I were you, I'd be worried. This woman (best friend???) flirts with YOUR husband and takes his side. I'd dump her so fast her head would spin. With friends like that, who needs enemies?
2007-12-19 17:22:31 · answer #3 · answered by katydid 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
another woman in any relationship is trouble if she gets involved with your man . sounds like you have a big problem here. tell him to stop talking to her or you two are done ,also get rid of her yourself a good Friend would not get involved with your man
2007-12-19 18:37:54 · answer #4 · answered by just me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I ended up being in the same situation except we wern't married. Well he wanted to get married, I didn't. She ended up having his baby. Tried lying to me about it to. Turns out she wasn't my best friend after all.
2007-12-19 17:37:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You got to be kidding me...If this has any validity to it then you need to cut of ties to both your husband and your so called friend.
2007-12-19 17:40:30 · answer #6 · answered by Slick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find another best friend and husband.
2007-12-19 17:20:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Ok, this is either a "joke" or you are the stupidest woman on the face of the earth.
So which is it?!
2007-12-19 17:32:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes they can but I don't like it when their my man and they do and he's breaking the golden rule of going to YOUR BEST FRIEND tell him to get his OWN!
2007-12-19 17:25:28 · answer #9 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Worry! And just don't argue.
2007-12-19 17:21:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋