they are
1. cheating (should be obvious, but )
2. porn /strip clubs
what are your breaking points?
have you ever broken it of because of them?
2007-12-19 08:59:16 · 21 answers · asked by just me 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ok i guess i have 3. abuse would be it
2007-12-19 09:08:59 · update #1
babygurl i checked your profile you are in 7th grade go plays with your dolls and leave the adult questions to adults
2007-12-19 09:11:36 · update #2
1.) cheating
2.) constantly checking out other women in front of me. its disrespectful and insulting. i dont care that "its in their nature", i dont understand why a guy cant try to be polite when he's out with his girl. afterall, if he's got a great girl with him, why does he *have* to look at every one else!?!?
3.) of course strip clubs/porn, too!!
2007-12-19 09:03:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Abuse
Cheating
Chronic unemployment
Lying
Habitual hard core drug/alcohol abuse (some fun is Ok)
The porn and strip clubs-I don't care about either way-I'm not threatened by them-its just naked women in compromising positions.
2007-12-19 19:58:36 · answer #2 · answered by Lunaeclipz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lying is my #1 break all.
Cheating, a close #2.
Personally I like going to strip clubs and watching porn with the BF, I like to point out imperfections....And, I always benefit from them. LOL
2007-12-19 17:05:56 · answer #3 · answered by blueeyes_unever_4get 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Never say never. There's some things that I said I would never put up with. I soon found out that when you're married, sometimes you put up with more than you ever thought of without a second thought.
Of coarse, no one wants a cheater, liar, porn addict, etc....
But breaking up is not always the answer to problems.
2007-12-19 17:06:54 · answer #4 · answered by QuEEn B 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
1) Cheating
2) Substance Abuse/Addiction
I actually have one more:
3) Physical/Emotional Abuse.
Porn doesn't bother me so much. I mean, if he's sitting on his computer watching Porn, at least you know where he is and what he's doing. Plus, most guys realize porn's just a fantasy.
2007-12-19 17:04:40 · answer #5 · answered by J'adore 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Cheating and lying are two no no's in my marriage....
I suppose porn/strip clubs as well...because we both don't look at porn and don't go to strip clubs...we have talked extensively about these issues and have agreed upon them..
2007-12-19 17:03:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have to say this,,,,,we can't expect our views to rule the rest of human kind. People will always fall short of our expectations. I know of plenty of people that have said they will never put up with something and then life turns around and slaps those things in their face and they have to live with it! Our arrogance when it comes to these things lead us sometimes to a false sense of security and that's why we have so many issues here in YA of people that trusted their spouse and had rules of conduct as strict as the ones mention already on this question....I go through life with a realistic view that humans will fail.....nothing is concrete! Think about it!
2007-12-19 17:17:40 · answer #7 · answered by KingDavid 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't put limits on my relationship. I don't know what would cause it to end until something happens. To say that I would end my marriage if my wife did X or Y without knowing everything about x or y would be short sighted of me. Things that would cause me immediate concern would be
Drug Use
Cheating
Something to harm the kids
2007-12-19 17:16:50 · answer #8 · answered by chinamigarden 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. Abuse
2.lying
3.cheating
2007-12-19 17:11:23 · answer #9 · answered by eeyore6838 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
1) Cheating
2) Lying
3) Smoking,drinking,porn...Anything bar related.
2007-12-19 17:57:51 · answer #10 · answered by Bride2Be 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋