ok i really hate this girl cause she is such a b!tch , but i fancy her sooo much aswell .
i don't know what to do because i really fancy her alot, but i'm confused how can i fancy her when we literally hate each other . its awkward cause both our crews hate each other, my crew b!tch bout her like everyday and i join in so not to look suspicious (cause i'm ment to hate her ).
but i feel really guilty bout what i say about her . i'm so confused i don't know what to do .
what should i do
PS : i like guys too . + my crew is gayophobic
2007-12-19 08:58:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i'm 14 and she is 13
2007-12-19 08:59:14 · update #1
you are young and are trying to find out who you are and explore your sexuality - this is normal.
when people are frustrated and cant show their true feelings, expressions of love can be similar to hate. you are trying to get her attention, but also wanting to fit in with your group.
as you get older you will realise that its not so important what other people think
2007-12-19 09:03:44 · answer #1 · answered by L 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should do two things:
1) Get out of your 'crew'--they sound mean and hateful
2) Wait 2-3 years to think about love and relationships
2007-12-19 09:02:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're fourteen and she's thirteen? You have all the time in the world to explore your sexuality - you're too young to be worrying about that now! Enjoy your friendships with people - because that's what they are, it's normal to have school girl crushes but says nothing about your sexuality. When you're older you may decide that you are straight, or that you are gay, but don't worry yourself with that now. Go out and have fun - the cinema, the youth club, swimming, ice skating - time goes very quickly as you get older so don't miss out by worrying about your sexuality now!
2007-12-19 09:51:53 · answer #3 · answered by topcat1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gayophobic? What's that...ghetto language for homophobic?
If you don't like her, probably not a good idea to try and hit on her. And if she's a b!tch to you, that's a good indication that she doesn't want to be with you.
2007-12-19 09:03:48 · answer #4 · answered by mirrors and smoke 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
At first I thought this sounded totally ridiculous, then I saw the age...
2007-12-19 09:04:14 · answer #5 · answered by rei_chaka 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Be a leader, not a follower.
2007-12-19 09:02:26 · answer #6 · answered by Aye. Right! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
drop the agression thing . don't go with the crew thing - chill
see what happens?
2007-12-19 09:01:59 · answer #7 · answered by Emma Jean 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
follow ure heart, who caress wot others think, make some mends, if it doesn't work out then go find someone else.
2007-12-19 09:02:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is obviously a love-hate relationship
So very kinky!
Enjoy it!
2007-12-19 09:02:45 · answer #9 · answered by StretfordEnder 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't worry to much about it you will grow up soon.
2007-12-19 10:33:55 · answer #10 · answered by Maid Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋