My wife is 13 weeks pregnant and when I came home the other night she said that she wanted a divorse. We had been arguing but nothing too serious does this have something to do with harmones? What do you suggest I do?
2007-12-19 08:47:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
That's such a scary thing but only she knows the answer to that. My hormones made me where I didn't want my fiance to touch me, at all, and even now I'm fine with cuddling but I don't want anything else. It's a scary time in a woman's life and there are a lot of changes going on. You deserve to know the truth and she needs to tell you. If its just the way she's feeling or if there is something you've done that upsets her. This sounds like a total surprise to you so it could just be the hormones. Does she have anyone she can talk to who has been pregnant before?
2007-12-19 08:52:50 · answer #1 · answered by wazup_dude2007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all are you sure that is your baby? I mean I know this is a weird question, but you never know if she is just trying to protect you from something worse. Unless she hasn't cheated before I would rule this one out. But, if she has cheated keep it in mind. For the most part women ethier feel independt like they don't really need there spouse or they are extremly needy. So it could very well be the hormones. I suggest talking to her and finding out what the real problem is. No matter if she is pregnant or not there has to be something that is triguring these feelings. She may have just felt this way for awhile and when your pregnant your hormone are much stronger then normal may have just given her the nerve to tell you. You really need to find the underlining problems before you jump to any conclusions.
2007-12-19 08:56:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be hormones, or it could be that all she wanted was the baby. Talk to a councelor that specializes in pregnant women.
Best of luck to you. Do your best to be understanding, just in case it is the hormones.
Never make major life decisions while pregnant. Its almost the same as if you were making them while crazed out of your mind. Take time away and see how you feel.
2007-12-19 09:02:47 · answer #3 · answered by buggerhead 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my ex daughterinlaw did this to my son when she was pregnant with the second child.she has been thinking of leaving you for awhile apparently.i suggest you get a good lawyer and prepare for anything,also get a paternity test as soon as possible,no need to get saddled supporting a kid that is not yours.that may be why she wants a divorce.if she is decent she will tell you the truth.good luck and remember whatever happens life goes on and you will be fine,with her or without her!
2007-12-19 08:58:47 · answer #4 · answered by dixie58 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy her a pretty gift each day for one week. Say really nice things even if she is screaming her head off. Tell her you need a hug every one and then. Make her a nice meal. Rub her feet with lotion. Make an ice cream sunday for her. Touch her hair when she's sleepy,
Take five slow deep breaths when things get out of control. Don't worry. Things will be just fine.
2007-12-19 08:57:42 · answer #5 · answered by ToYou,Too! 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hormones may have something to do with it, but surely there is something else. Maybe she feels insecure about your fathering abilities or maybe she feels like you two want different things in life. What ever it is you need to talk to her and try to do what's best for the baby.
Good Luck!!!
2007-12-19 08:53:10 · answer #6 · answered by Chrystal J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, could be the hormones. Give her a little time and space. Don't force her to talk or anything. It will probably work itself out unless there have been ongoing problems. Good Luck!
2007-12-19 08:51:12 · answer #7 · answered by kepsaw 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
ask her what is going on with her...she may be feeling upseet about some things...talk with her...she is obviously going through a rough time right now...it is your duty as a husband to see what is the problem and how you cna help work things out...god bless
2007-12-19 08:55:14 · answer #8 · answered by God Bless America!~ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i say it hormones i threw my bf out 3 times when i was preg. tralk to her or give her a break for a day or two
2007-12-19 08:58:33 · answer #9 · answered by kelly h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either one of the two things, she's either very hormaonal right now or the baby is not yours. Good luck
2007-12-19 08:51:58 · answer #10 · answered by koda 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋