What would you do if you caught your wife having an internet affair. Then it turning into were they exchange phone numbers and addresses. All the while neither are aware that you know what is going on in the secret? You have his name his wifes name, his phone number and adress and he lives 200 miles away.
2007-12-19 08:45:56 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You see last month I did confront her about the emails I found, and that she gave him our address and phone number. She said she would stop she was in tears and begging me not to leave her. Well three days ago I found a number on her phone and reverse searched it to find out it was him. I have also found alot of notes she was gonna snail mail him about how she didnt want to give him up,because she loves him to much. His wife knows he calls her at times but thinks their just friends. What gets me is my wife is 25 and he is like 41. I want to leave yes because the trust has been broken twice but we have kids together. Just confused on what to do.
2007-12-20 00:56:20 · update #1
I think you should confront your wife with what you know. You need to also talk to her and see if she is unhappy and if it is something that the two of you can work on and fix and if not then the both of you can move on. Also I would contact this man's wife and let her know what is going on. I would personally want to know if my husband was doing something like this. I hope this helps.
2007-12-19 09:08:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd leave! It's clear that she doesn't give a damn about you! Let the other guy have her, and find someone who truly loves you as you love them. The trust factor has been broken, and you probably wouldn't trust her again as you did in the past. If you were a woman, every woman in the world would tell you to leave him because he's a dog. The door swings both ways, and women can be dog's too.
2007-12-19 08:52:51 · answer #2 · answered by eagleman 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would wait and see what she does....if she meets up with him and fools around besure you have a camra with the date and time displayed on the pic so you will have proof for the divorce. I might also bring a base ball bat and put a good scare in the both of them.
2007-12-19 09:23:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would confront my spouse. And call the man's/women's spouse and let them know what is going on. Then I would get a divorce and leave both of them for each other they deserve each other. They are both looses.. God bless****
2007-12-19 08:52:17 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her only, do not contact her friend. You will only be stirring up trouble withthe other spouse. Talk to your wife to find out why she is doing this and if she plans on continueing if it upsets you.
2007-12-19 09:19:15 · answer #5 · answered by val 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its time to let her know you know. Put a stop to it, or call the wife. I believe honesty is the best policy.
2007-12-19 08:52:06 · answer #6 · answered by blueeyes_unever_4get 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Empty the bank accounts and get all your joint credit cards cancelled-(tell her you are financially regrouping) leave with your stuff and get your own apartment and start a divorce !
2007-12-19 11:03:18 · answer #7 · answered by Lunaeclipz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey talk to her maybe you can spice it up so she will stop this Internet thing if you love her you can work anything out
2007-12-19 08:53:07 · answer #8 · answered by datsleather 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
...I would call him and ask him what he is doing with your information... Let him know you have his information and ask him why all this happened. Just be up front. Confront him.
2007-12-19 08:49:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Confront her with what you know...Its all about honesty and if you don't come forward then YOU are being dishonest.
2007-12-19 08:49:03 · answer #10 · answered by Twiggy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋