is pre-marital sex wrong?

Answer 1

Um, I think I'd have to go w/ no. If it was wrong, then I'd be wrong and I'm always right. So no, it's not wrong! Besides gotta make sure all is good, wouldn't wanna marry someone lousy in bed, now that would be wrong.

Answer 2

Depends on who you ask.
Of course it is wrong according to God, it's a sin. I am Catholic but I did take part in pre-marital sex. In my opinion, life is too short to not have experiences. I was not and never will be promiscuous but I did have sex when I felt I was ready. I feel as though it's better to have some experience for whomever it is you marry so that you can enjoy the sex and know what it is you want from sex because although sex isnt' the most important thing in a marriage, it is essential to keep both partners satisfied.
I think that even though it's considered a sin, hey, that's what confession is for. And, we are all sinners, so what's the big deal?
I know some women want to wait it out till they're married because the virginity is a very special thing to lose. I applaud them for doing so and waiting it out. I lost my virginity to a great man who I am still friends with to this day and I don't regret it. Also, my fiance likes the fact that I know how to please him very well.

Answer 3

No. Just do it safely. Most of the people who think it's wrong also think you can choose to be gay or straight. Both of which are ridiculous assumptions.

As long as you don't injure anyone and you're not being self destructive or destructive in general, you should be fine. But, personally, I don't see how it could be destructive if you're being safe, unless there was an accident and the condom broke. Even still, that's rare enough that people do have pre-marital sex all the time.

It really depends on if you're ready. If you are, go for it and if you're not, don't. That's all there really is to it.

Answer 4

I agree with most answers on here. To each his/her own. So you really have to make up your own mind what is right and best for you.
Sex is something that should be enjoyed between two people who love and care for each other. If you are already engaged and feel that the time is right then I say go for it. If you are uncomfortable with it as you seem to be because you have to ask the question, then perhaps talking it out between the two of you and waiting is the right choice.
Either way a bolt of lightening will not come out of the heavens and burn you alive if you decide to make love with the person you love.
Just be sure and confident in your decision before going either way.
Remember anticipation is half the fun, like waiting until Christmas morning to open all the packages and see what's inside.

Answer 5

Yes it is wrong.
Pre-marital sex in the dictionary is described as fornication. If you are concerned about it then you should be, because it is biblicaly wrong. It is one of the 10 commandments.

Exodus 20:14
14 "You shall not commit adultery.

Matthew 19:19
Jesus replied, " 'Do not murder, do not commit adultery, do not steal, do not give false testimony, honor your father and mother,' and 'love your neighbour as yourself.' "

What this tells you is that it is an immoral act and a sin before God.

Answer 6

It's a sin in God's eyes . If you're not very religious, you probably will have sex before marriage . However, there are reasons why you should wait until marriage . If A woman is like a bicycle, and everybody's had a ride, why is it special for her husband to have sex with her ?You don't see a movie without buying a ticket . If you see a movie and you don't like it, it's never going to get any better, but if you have sex with your romantic partner, that person can always improve his / her performance . One reason why people aren't satisfied with their marriages is because once they've fit everything in before marriage, what's left to make their marriage special ?

Answer 7

Technically it is a sin in God's eyes. You have to make that decision for yourself. But for me, I participated in sex before marriage because physically I desired it. There is only so much you can do alone. I did not sleep around, but tried a few out. Majority, even religious folks, are having sex. Just follow your own beliefs, whether it be right or wrong.

Answer 8

If you are a Christian, then, yes, according to the Bible, pre-marital sex is called "fornication" and yes the Bible defines it as "sin".
It is definitely a struggle to remain pure until marriage, but yes, it can be done, I know plenty of couples who waited until marriage to have sex, and have never regretted it, in fact, they have the happiest marriages I have seen.

Answer 9

pre marital sex with what? remember that bill clinton taught us that oral sex is not real sex, so there are lots of things you could do and it not be real sex. or if you have sex with a professional girl, isnt that like going to the doctor? think about it

Answer 10

In a relationship when a couple share practically everything , sex is something that makes two people bond - married or unmarried. As long as you are old and mature enough too deal with the responsibility sex brings , you are ready.

But having a relationship when you are underage ( under 18 ) is something should be avoided, as when a teanager is not prepared for something as grown up as sex , he or she ends up dealing with unwanted pregnancy , STD's , and emotions that come with sex . Age is a important factor , when you are not ready for driving , voting or consuming alchohol ....... you definately aren't ready for sex.

Answer 11

Ooo-boy; you really know how to kick open a can of worms don't you?

Is it wrong in the eyes of God? Yes; no doubt.

Is it wrong in the legal sense? Not as long as everyone is of age.

Is it wrong in the eyes of your culture? Depends on your culture,

IS IT WRONG FOR YOU? Only you can answer that. Sex is one of the most beautiful things God blessed us with here on earth. You shouldn't let anyone influence you into doing or not doing anything that you don't feel is right.