I am a woman..who cannot understand this guy I met recently in my job. We've often flirted before and had a connection..he even told me he was falling for me one day when we chatted..then one day you know kisses etc but not sex (he tried, but Im the type that waits a bit) . Seems like the usual start of something but yhe didn't contact me next day, or next day, or next day!! I contacted him and suggested meeting up...and he didn't reply...until a few days later & its too late as I had left my city to go back to mine. then he contacted me on and off but never talk about his feelings. now he is calling me to say he will come to see me (I live in another state) and I hear feelings in his voice. WHAT'S GOING ON IN THIS MAN'S HEAD? Is he a bit unstable? It seems strange to me. We have mutual friends and they think highly of him. Did he feel rejected when I didnt move as quickly as him physically?
2007-12-19 07:55:01 · 5 answers · asked by logical girl 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
He's looking for an easy lay. You weren't one, but he thinks he has another shot. If you turn him down again, he'll probably disappear.
2007-12-19 07:58:17 · answer #1 · answered by Laceyd5 4 · 6⤊ 0⤋
He thinks very highly of himself,he can't believe you turned him down.
He also seems a little immature,sulking because he didn't get his own way,for gods sake,he will get worse rejection than that before he's 80.
He's not someone I would be bothered with.
2007-12-19 08:03:47 · answer #2 · answered by Pat R 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'd suggest you stop trying to figure HIM out and find out if you want to spend time with him! He's who he is--and your "understanding" him isn't going to change that!!!! Closeness and sex/and sense of rejection seems to be a BIG problem with him! HE isn't going to change....
2007-12-19 10:16:15 · answer #3 · answered by Martell 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be very, very, careful.
Casual relationships can be off and on.
He may have been trying you out for a quicky.
2007-12-19 08:02:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
you must feel something toward him, otherwise you wouldnt be asking the question.
Whats wrong with him?
hes scared of rejection
2007-12-19 08:00:31 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋