I tend to talk too much too fast - and I try to relax and make an effort to listen more and talk slower. but I still get myself into trouble, and I often share way more than I want to share. It isn't a good thing. A lot depends on the comfort level I have with the person I'm talking with..
I am a man, but in general I'm far more comfortable talking to women.
not sure why.
2007-12-19 07:25:26 · 12 answers · asked by art_flood 4 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I do the same thing...its really bad when i have caffiene. If i go without...I talk much calmer and slower and i tend to think about what i say before i say it :-). If you do consume alot of caffiene...go cold turkey...its hard...youll have a headache for about a week...and drink alot of water...this helped me talking really fast.
Also...when you feel like saying something...take a deep breath...and count to 3 before you say it...and think about it while youre doing this. It might help you relax before you explode in conversation. Hope I can help! :-)
2007-12-19 07:32:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to talk too much, too fast. I'm guessing this is not really the same but when i got up to secondary school no-one could understand me or keep up. I just kept reminding myself to talk slowly, not so much. I let things out a bit too easily as well (not other peoples thing though-that would be wrong).
I'd say just keep reminding yourself. I did that and i just got used to talking slowly!
Good Luck
Or just be happy with who you are!
2007-12-19 07:30:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Excessive talking is usually a symptom associated with ADHD. And sometimes it is a sign of drug use like crystal meth, or diet drugs like Fastin or Fentremine.
If you do not use any drugs or medication, have you been diagnosed with Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder before? Or do you drink way too many cups of coffee?
2007-12-19 07:32:50 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I took this lady out to dinner at a nice restaurant(first time we had got out) From the time we sat down she never stop talking after 40 Min's of this I
reached over and put a piece of bread in her mouth. We both understood what I met.
2007-12-19 07:50:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would seek help if I were you. Excessive talking can get you in trouble. A counselor might recommend some exercises for you. I would also eliminate any stimulants like coffee and tea, etc. or anything else that can get one excited.
2007-12-19 07:35:02 · answer #5 · answered by bleh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe in all of that 'talking' I didn't notice a question....is it why do feel more comfortable talking to women? OR is it why do you talk so much?
2007-12-19 07:29:07 · answer #6 · answered by rlk0405 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talking a lot isnt so much of a problem..its part of your personality...and i dont think gender reallly matters when it comes to being comfortable...try to think things over more before speaking and you wont blurt out anything you dont want anyone to know
2007-12-19 07:29:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Shutup
Problem solved
2007-12-19 07:34:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have a question?
2007-12-19 07:28:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just shut up :)
2007-12-19 07:32:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋