In July my husband and his father got into an argument and my father in law called my husband some really nasty names. Then a week later his mother did the samething. My in laws have been trying to manipulate us since the day we got married and have said some mean things and have done horrible things to us. Not knowing how to handle the situation went for counsoling and it was recommended since we have 4 young to children to "love from a distance" until they can behave. Since July they have made no effort to see our children not even a phone call. So the other day was suprised to get Christimas cards from them with a 50 check for each my children with a note saying that they are praying that their parents would let them visit. We chose not have a close relationship with them because of their verbal abuse towards us in front of children should we give the money back due to the nasty note or keep for my children who are 4,3,2,and 9 months
2007-12-19
07:00:36
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Politics & Government
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