Why do i take things personal i have been told i have lost my sence of humor, i feel like everythig my family say to me is a critisim or dig all the time and it is causing lots of upsets, i feel quite lonely
2007-12-19 05:53:04 · 8 answers · asked by jane 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
when we r young we generally take things too much to heart. maybe u r just one of those ppl who are very emotional, who have rich heart and emotions, and who take their personality too serious. maybe u react urself to all ur mistakes very seriously and u critisise urself too much. ppl tend to critisise us a lot but we have to know what is true or false in what they say about us.
2007-12-19 06:10:03 · answer #1 · answered by mia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you think about it we are all made up of DNA which settles in a particular way to form the person that we are.
As on the outside we all look different so it is on the inside too. By that I mean some of us are more sensitive, others bossier, others more clever etc. the list is endless.
If you think about having a fairy godmother that would grant you ways to change yourself would there be that many changes you would have to make? I don't mean like to make I mean HAVE to.
I am sure that you don't need to totally alter yourself completely and after all why should you? You are unique and special and a total 'one off'. You can change and adapt to fit in here and there and we all do that for the sake of peace and harmony sometimes, but I think you should be proud of who you are and so long as you are hurting no one in doing what you do, what is so bad?
Maybe your family are trying to make you a little less introvert probably because they care for you and want to be closer to you. Could this be so? Or perhaps they are trying in their own way to guide you, I don't know as you have not given any details, but whatever they are doing I am sure it is because they care for you.
2007-12-19 11:46:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If people have noticed that you have lost your sense of humour, and you are feeling particularly sensitive perhaps you should see your doctor. Maybe you are suffering from depression?
I hope you work things out and have a good xmas
x
2007-12-19 05:58:14 · answer #3 · answered by princess 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im with you im going through a rouhg phase in my life and i keep hopeing it ll get better and actaully it has iv been doen for months now and im just gettong up slowly but up. try to be positive and to things you like and get out the house get your mind on somehting adn get a hobbby it helps
2007-12-19 05:59:03 · answer #4 · answered by TTC #2 Baby Dust MEEE! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you got a chip on your shoulder about something? Lighten up! Laugh at what others say. Don't take it so personal.
2007-12-19 05:57:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u got to be able 2 laugh at urself b4 u can laugh about others....we all have flawrs (spelling is 1 of many of mine) but remember its ok.....just stay cool bro
2007-12-19 06:00:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are letting fear control you.
Deal with your fears! Confront and conqueror them!
Merry Christmas
2007-12-19 05:57:50 · answer #7 · answered by box of rain 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry it shows that you do have a heart , it's your family that hasn't.
2007-12-19 05:59:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋