there and boasting it will be "their" home. after marriage they built toghether the seconf half of the house with their wedding money. but the house and land was written after his parents. now he doesnt want to give her rights on house. i tell her to leave him in case he doesnt trust her and doesnt consider her a wife but a donnow what. is this a real family based on cheating on and tricks? :(
2007-12-19 05:36:03 · 10 answers · asked by mia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes, but in case of divorce for any reason in future(cos they are young and have no children) she will remain in the streets. life is life, a woman in street is not good thing.
2007-12-19 05:42:46 · update #1
Sounds like he is holding the house over her head, I would not marry someone like that. He should be concerned about her future too, not just his own!
2007-12-19 05:49:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If they are married then she does not have to worry about anything even if the house it not under her name it is technically hers. And if they have kids the house is even more hers. And the question is why does he not want to put her name on the house they are married. It is really weird and I think that they should sit down and talk but if they have a happy marriage why ruin it with when I leave. What am I going to get.
2007-12-19 05:50:13 · answer #2 · answered by Lost 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I read right through this he is full of **** his parents got the loan on the house not him to build and that is why he cannot put her on he does not have good enough credit to get his own building loan.
2007-12-19 05:51:53 · answer #3 · answered by lisalisa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the first answerer is correct IF they live in a community property state... in my state, that is not the case--i recently bought a house and only my name is on the deed (mutual decision), and it is not my husband's house at all, legally... in fact, if i were to die & didn't leave it to him in a will it would go to my child, NOT him. and in a divorce, it would not be considered a "marital asset"
anyhow... what he's doing is bs! he sounds like a jerk.
2007-12-19 05:45:32 · answer #4 · answered by Ember Halo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This should not be your concern. If you friend is happy leave her alone. She will turn on you and not him if you are not careful, it's her husband.....If she asks for your opinion you can give it, but it is her life and ultimately her decision. You should also search your soul to make sure jealousy is not part of it on your end.
2007-12-19 05:41:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Papers or no papers once they say I do and her name is now his last name. SHE GET"S HALF!!!!
It's her's anyway so let it be oh yeah unless she signs a pre-nup then it's over.
2007-12-19 05:43:18 · answer #6 · answered by Debbie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is your friend's decision, not your's. She has to decide whether or not she is willing to deal with this or not. You should not try to influence her opinion of her husband. She needs to base her opinion on his actions, not your words.
2007-12-19 05:44:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If they are married, it is her house as well... no matter what the papers say.
Merry Christmas
2007-12-19 05:40:06 · answer #8 · answered by box of rain 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You possibly need to mind your own business.
2007-12-19 05:45:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
depends on what state their in. she can fight for half!
2007-12-19 05:42:42 · answer #10 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋