my advice.
If all you do is argue and argue you are better off not being with him. Im sorry to say this, but if he is not interested in getting a job he's probably never going to change.
You both want different things in life.
You should probably break up with him and be with somebody who has a job or plans on doing something with his life. not that money matters.
Find somebody who you dont fight with and who makes you happy.
good luck.
and i hope i helped!
2007-12-19 05:21:15
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answered by lalala 2
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I've been in relationships with a guy in particular who was just lazy. He was a nice guy and all but he just wasn't in a hurry to get anything done or even start going to college. I would have to call places and ask if they are hiring and even get applications for him! This relationship obviously didn't last. I've seen him sometime last year or so and I think he was still in the same position. I think maybe you should motivate him and if he doesn't take that extra step to make something happen then that's all you can do. IF you say the relationship is not good anyways what are you doing with him then?
2007-12-19 13:36:56
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answered by Txgirl23 4
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Doesn't want to get a job? At all? Finer things in life? Like what? Food and heat? You KNOW that this isn't even a question to be asked. You KNOW the answer. Jesus, do you need it spelled out for you?
2007-12-19 13:18:21
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answered by Shadow 6
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He should care about his life enough to go back to school or get his GED. He should definitely care enough to have a job - any job. People who don't understand the importance of working and saving for retirement rarely get very far.
If you're working and trying to make something of yourself, you deserve a partner who has the same goals in mind. He may grow out of it - I don't know how old the two of you are.
I'd be very hesitant to stay in the relationship but only you know what's going on inside of it. You need to make the decision and stick to it.
Good luck...
2007-12-19 13:19:06
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answered by Holly 3
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I think you have sumed it all up for your self. Take my advice I wasted 8 years of my life on a relationship that went no where after that I vowed to never waste another minute on someone that doesn't want at least the samethings I want in life or more. Honey life is to short live it to the fullest
2007-12-19 13:18:02
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answered by Debbie 3
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I think you know what you need to do, its not worth it if you are giving your all, plus you like the finer things in life and you are the only one that will be working towards that... you want someone who will help you.
If your fighting all the time that isnt worth it either.
2007-12-19 13:18:12
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answered by Anonymous
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Sum advice? Why do you need to ask? He is a bum who argues with you and you don't really love him...so...what's the question?
Are you willing to continue to support him and be his mother? If so, then stay with him. But if you have any kind of respect for yourself put him out with the trash and stop wasting your life and efforts.
Yoda out
2007-12-19 13:18:03
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answered by Yoda 5
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Uhhh you and everybody else knows the answer to this question... Unless your cool with being the man of the house and letting somone mooch off of you.
2007-12-19 17:13:03
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answered by Mrs.Drew 4
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If you think you can do better, then, by all means, do so. It is not fair to either of you to waste the other's time. It is more than obvious, if you are materialistic and he is lazy, then your relationship is doomed.
2007-12-19 13:35:35
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answered by Anonymous
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It's time to go your separate ways. You can't change him and you need to focus on doing for yourself. Relationships shouldn't be hard.
2007-12-19 13:19:32
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answered by Peace 5
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