my coworker that never told me about his gf ,never would have lunch with me!!
then I did a few bad things to him online,
then he found out it was me,
then we both apologised,
then he said we will still say hi but we wont be friends,
and when I asked him to lunch aain he said NO!,he would rather go with people he just met.
why?
what have I done?
2007-12-19 05:06:53 · 17 answers · asked by illegal2deceive 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
he said if i was the only ooption to have lunch with then he has to swallow his pride and do it?!!!!
2007-12-19 05:09:49 · update #1
Why would you WANT to have lunch with this guy?
Isn't he wearing a big "L" on his forehead?
2007-12-19 05:10:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys have large ego and a lot of pride.
He thinks that going out to lunch with you would say that he is ok with what you did. You screwed over by what you did. Give him his space and maybe you'll be friends again.
2007-12-19 05:14:10 · answer #2 · answered by charmedite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you answered your own question. You acted like a psycho and now you wonder why he doesn't want to talk to you. There's a really good movie for you to watch its called Fatal Attraction.
2007-12-19 05:15:49 · answer #3 · answered by CrazyGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should take a hint, and both of you quit acting like you're in 8th grade, unless you really are, then your childish behaviour is totally appropriate.
2007-12-19 05:13:57 · answer #4 · answered by Hot Coco Puff 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just leave him alone........I don't know either of you personally. So just leave him alone, he's not interested and now that you've gone and done some "bad things" to him online he see's the type of person you are.
And by the way.......anyone can apologize, doesn't mean they meant it ya know.
2007-12-19 05:12:50 · answer #5 · answered by MLJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then why would you ask him to lunch if he told you we won't be friends. He's not interested. Take a hint.
2007-12-19 05:11:11 · answer #6 · answered by What What 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
read your message agin and again and you'll find the answer...he might not be interested in you and as you have said, you did some bad things to him online...what's the point of questioning at the end? if he said no, that's it...
2007-12-19 05:13:02 · answer #7 · answered by NPARIS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to tell you this, sometimes ladies put themselves in their own predicament.
This guy is not interested in you, i just don't understand why the h*ll you are still forcing yourself on him.
How else do you want him to tell it to you that you and him don't belong together.
I just don't get it.....
2007-12-19 05:16:22 · answer #8 · answered by pune700 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell you the truth i really don't like to answer these types of questions but ok. what you did was pestered him about going out to dinner. then made fun about him on the internet.
2007-12-19 05:17:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why won't he have lunch with you?? becuase you did some sneaky stuff to him online. he doesn't want to be your friend cause you are a bad friend.
2007-12-19 05:11:01 · answer #10 · answered by Jenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋