Would you be mad if your husband went to a strip bar?
Me and two co-workers were coming back from a buisness trip and stopped in Nashville to eat. The next thing I know we were drinking rum straight out of the bottle and having the time of our lives at a strip club. I dodged my wifes phone calls and finally made it home around 3:00 am. I told her my phone was out of order and we had car trouble. She bought it, hook, line and sinker. I tipped with 5 dollar bills and blew 300.00 dollars. Even if I did get caught, it will still be worth it. I had the best time ever.
2007-12-19 05:06:06 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If I told her she would have a fit.
P.S. When I woke up the next morning, I had a nipple print on my glasses....
2007-12-19 05:15:24 · update #1
I do feel a little guilty, but she is a pain to live with so I feel this will even up the score. I should not keep score but what the hell. I did not spend my money on just one stripper, it was like 10 or 15 of them. This is the first lie I have told to her, besides blaming the kids for eating the last of the cookies. So all that judge me and call me names, B L O W me....
2007-12-19 05:43:29 · update #2
No, I wouldn't be mad... I'd tell him I'd keep him company next time he decided to go.
2007-12-19 05:15:18 · answer #1 · answered by Sandy Ego 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
If you don't regret it then why are you worried. To make it up you could let her go to a strip club and get f****d up and come home at 3:00 in the morning. That would even things up right? Personally, I would leave any jack*** who would do that and then lie about it. Men are such pigs, you blew 300.00 on a strip whore in one night? That money should have gone towards a nice Christmas present for the woman who puts up with your stupid a**.
2007-12-19 05:21:41 · answer #2 · answered by j j 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have experience with this one... I lost a marriage over it. I am not an 'uptight' wife or prudy person by any means. My 1st marriage ended due to my ex-husband lying about it constantly and feeling the need to go every single time he went out of town on business. I caught him every time and hundreds of hard earned dollars later wasted! And for nothing he would really receive in reality from these ladies. If your honest and love your wife-tell her! Face the heat and you never know, she may just say "thank you for at least letting me know. I appreciate it, I don't like it-but I trust you." You can't get trust in your marriage back very easily, so it's not worth ruining.
My 2nd husband and I have been to a strip club 2X together and that is more fun! He bought ME a dance for his birthday... *wink*. You realize after a while that the girls are out for your money not you.
Don't hide it-if she ever found out-you would look like a big liar to your wife and she married you because she trusts you.
Good luck!
2007-12-19 05:15:23 · answer #3 · answered by gabrielle2213 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Grow up son. You are married and no business blowing that kind of money. You are in a partnetship. You have obligations to do right by that partnership. Glad you had a good time but there will be consequences. My bet is your wife will eventually find out and then you are going to be in for a rough time. If you are lucky enough to get away with this, count your blessings and be smarter and leave the next time.
2007-12-19 05:12:32 · answer #4 · answered by just me 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think you are a tiny little monster waiting to be caught ..and when you do ..it will be because you tripped yourself..blamed everyone else.. and thought you were Gods gift to the planet ( which you are most definitely not ) . I do not think you care about anyone but your poor poor tiny penis. And even that is something you do not even care enough about.
I feel sorry for your wife and your kids. And even your dog and you cat if you have any. I feel sorry for your parents for having raised you up to be the kind of "man" you are today . I feel sorry for your brothers and sisters. I feel sorry that you hate your dad and your mom. I feel sorry for you. And so on and so forth.
So?
2007-12-19 05:18:52 · answer #5 · answered by juliette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't be mad about that no the only way i'd be mad is if he lied to me about it
Then all i would be mad at it that he didn't tell me the truth about it not that he went out with the boys
and you are prick for lying to your wife and bragging about it like it's something to be proud of
Guess what IT's NOT
Nothing Destroys a relationship faster than lies
2007-12-19 05:14:51 · answer #6 · answered by rebel_angel031 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i've been here before, and it hurts when you are lied to. i have always felt strip joints are demeaning to a woman, and if my husband had to go to on for his kicks then i feel that there is no need for me to be there when he gets home. if i am not what he wants then go ahead and go. i am very fortunate the second time around i have a very caring husband who respects me and that is a mutual thing. i can honestly say that i see you as a sneak and you have some serious issues. if you haven't cheated on your wife, you will. i despise men of your kind!
2007-12-19 05:32:55 · answer #7 · answered by ? 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I would be mad. Most of all I would be mad at the lying. I would respect my husband more if he was honest about it. Granted I don't like the idea of my husband going to strip clubs without me, but I would rather him tell me about it than lie to me, especially if I found out some other way.
2007-12-19 05:44:27 · answer #8 · answered by faith 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i would be mad that u blew 300 and thats why u have ur wife why would u go to a strip bar
2007-12-19 08:43:01 · answer #9 · answered by cangirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be disappointed if he went to a strip club because that's not the kind of person that he's demonstrated himself to be.
I'd be more upset to learn about the lies.
My heart goes out to your wife.
2007-12-19 05:09:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
You suck...you must think something is wrong with that. Ok, go and spend 300.00 on a stripper but you must have done more than that...why LIE to your wife?
2007-12-19 05:12:45 · answer #11 · answered by HIT 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋